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My friends, family and i have been through lots of various things throughout the years, and if im able to help people through similar situations i've experienced, then im more than happy to do it.
I've been told by many people that i am great to talk to about problems including the more private and personal ones those aren't always as comfortable talking about. And according to them i also give some pretty good advice!
Why I'm Here: The way i see it, things are always easier to analyse if your able to see the big picture, and rational decisions are easier to be made when you are not the person emotionally attatched to the situation and those involved. Thats where i come in, i don't know you, i won't judge you. Im just here to listen and help the best i can, if you aren't comfortable posting a question publicly, feel free to leave me a private message and i'll make sure i reply asap.
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Disappointed my boyfriend bought me t-shirts instead of a promise ring for Christmas!
Q. Its coming up to xmas and for a month my bf of 4 months has been asking me what I want for xmas. He suggested a budget of £50 and I agreed. I hinted I wanted him to get me a promise ring, he soon seemed to forget within a week and would say ahh ...
A. 24 December 2010: I know 4 months doesn't sound like much, but we've been together longer but only 4 officially, we have also been best friends for over 3 years before we got together. So our relationship is very serious. its just disappointing that he kept talking ... (read in full...)
It was fun and exciting at first but now its just bland
Q. Hi! My boyfriend and I do the same thing every time we have sex. It was fun and exciting at first but now it's just boring.What is some ways I can spice up my sexual experience to bring back the excitement we once had? ...
A. 23 November 2010: Suprise your guy, if you get him really hot and turned on it will make you feel the same. The feeling that your irresistable to your partner is a fantastic feeling, and makes sex great. Take it in turns to be in control.
You could start by being... (read in full...)
How can I mix it up a bit?
Q. I wan to know how I should be sexy. I do the same things like always, candles, roses, etc... I wanna know how I can mix it up a little bit....
A. 23 November 2010: In my opinion roses and candles are 'romantic' there for setting an intimate atmosphere for you and your loved one.
If you wanna be sexy and mix it up, yeah you could with some massage oils and lacey underwear.
But the real way to be sexy is how y... (read in full...)
Should I even try with this boy?
Q. Hi guys so I am having trouble deciding whether i should try with this boy, or even if he likes me..no idea. We met a couple weeks ago and we text sometimes (he texts me then a few days later i text him, so on...) anyways he seems like a ...
A. 23 November 2010: I think the reason why he 'seems sooo chill' is because with you always being busy and not willing to visit him to him may look like excuses, and he may see this as you not being totally interested in him. He may think hmm.. this girl is giving me ... (read in full...)
He suggested we be 'just friends' and then acts like we're a couple?
Q. My best male friend and i have abit of a past, on and off throughout our entire 'friendship' we've battled back and forth between friends and more. Multiple times we have expressed we have feelings for one another, but in the almost 3 years w...
A. 10 August 2010: Just to let you know, i am not having sex with him, we are NOT friends with benefits, the most i've done with this guy is make out. I'm not the sort to sleep with a guy out of a relationship, so friends with benefits isnt even an option from my ... (read in full...)
We never kiss any more!
Q. Hey Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years and the last couple of years of our relationship we NEVER KISS! I personally like kissing and believe it is a crucial part of being intimate and affectionate in a relationship. I have confronted him about ...
A. 3 June 2010: The next time you see him, just walk up to him give him a hug or something, and the pull away slowly and kiss him gently, if he lets you then just leave it at that, and hopefully he'll allow small kisses, then you an increase with time seems he ... (read in full...)
Did he write these things to get rid of me?
Q. i was with my boyfriend for four years, he cheated on me a few years back, we stayed together. Then he was flirting with people. He always kept secrets but id find some out now and then, also caught him out on a some lies. today i saw on his faceb...
A. 16 April 2010: to be honest, that doesnt really matter; whether he wrote those things to hurt you or not. The fact is, hes cheated and lied to you before, over and over again; i think that just about sums up the little amount of love and respect he has for you.
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My boyfriend is obsessed with me!
Q. *OP's own title* hey i am 17 and ive been dating my boyfriend for like a year and a few month,and its not that his to nice to me i can deal with that but the problem that he seems a bit to obsessed with me. well yh his nice and i dont mind that ab...
A. 15 April 2010: If you really want to dump him, then just sit him down. Explain to him how you feel, about how he's not been giving you enough space, and hows hes ways are pissing you off!
You have to be considerate, he is going to want to talk about it, so let h... (read in full...)
Is he giving off obvious signals that I seem oblivious to...???
Q. Hi so one of my best friends went out with this guy I like but then they broke up after 4 days. They are still really close firends though, for example I went shopping with my friend on saturday and they were constantly texting. But another friend i...
A. 22 March 2010: If hes constantly still texting your friend still, after going out with her and breaking up. It sounds to me like he still has feelings for her, and still likes her alot. Fair enough the odd text here and there, or a few daily but much more than ... (read in full...)
What could be going on with her?
Q. I told my close female friend that i really liked her and she told me lets just be friends for now and that she wanted to focus on her studies so now i'm trying to keep my distance from her however now she keeps talking to me alot more than she used ...
A. 2 March 2010: Ahh i've been in this situation quite a few times, more than i had liked if im honest. Eventhough she told you she just wanted to be friends, doesnt mean she doesnt neccessarily have feelings for you; you telling her how you feel about her may make ... (read in full...)
Should I contact him and figure things out or let him contact me first when he's ready?
Q. Dear Cupid, when i was 16 i started talking to one of my friends best friends. It came out of the blue and a couple months after i got out of a realtionship with my ex. we decided to take things slow since i didnt want to rush into any...
A. 2 March 2010: You said your best female friend is now close with him, and once dated him - but she was one of the few people who actually wanted you and him to get together?? - correct me if im wrong but that doesnt sound like much of a friend!
If for some rea... (read in full...)
Does he want to be good friends, or does he "like" me?
Q. hello everyone, I'm really confused and really need to know how i should go ahead.I have been single for a while now and a friend of mine told his best friend about me.While randomly facebooking on my friends wall...this guy added me nd we start...
A. 1 March 2010: Well if you've known each other for 3 months and he's made no move i can see why your a little confused. Let him know that you like him, your decision how - you can either come out and tell him, hint to him subtly or be obvious. Once he knows ... (read in full...)
Sex after birth?
Q. We recently had our first baby, (november), and we are just starting to have sex again and my partner has only been ok as long as we have anal, at first I didn't think anything as we have anal sex quite a lot but when I go to give her oral or try to ...
A. 1 March 2010: If she was happy having sex with you before the pregnancy/birth, i can't quite understand why she would now avoid it. What were her reasons when you confronted her as to why your sex life has changed? -Get her to explain her view, and why th... (read in full...)
I don't know how to ask her out since I have never asked out a girl before!
Q. Okay so I started talking to this cute girl about a week or two ago. She goes to my school and all but I've been starting to like her more and more lately. I don't know how to ask her out since I have never asked out a girl before. She is 14 almost ...
A. 1 March 2010: You could do this a few different ways, if your not comfortable asking her face to face you could ask her over text or online. Asking her out on a casual date is the best way, it will make her feel more comfortable and more likely to say ye... (read in full...)
Does he like me or her?
Q. I liked this guy since 2008 and in the 8th grade we would always look at each other...and glance too. I would catch him etc. Nothing happened I was always so shy and I thought he liked this other girl. Now I know he doesn't. K. This year we w...
A. 1 March 2010: It sounds to me like this guy likes you, eye contact is one of the biggest give aways when people are attracted to one other, when you catch him looking, stare back at him and give him abit of eye contact before looking away, or give the occasional ... (read in full...)
Did she use me to make my friend jealous?
Q. Did a girl I fell in love with use me to make my friend jealous and to see if he liked her? And when they got it together why did she keep rubbing it in my face? I would be very grateful if people to tell me what they think she was doing. Did ...
A. 1 March 2010: It sounds to me like you know exactly what she did, she played you. She used you to get to your friend. But it also sounds to me like your friend played a bigger part in it than it sounds, your friend must have either played hard to get with her or ... (read in full...)
I want to try french kissing but I'm not sure how to ask her if we can....
Q. ok so i am dating this girl...we have been dating for three months this Thursday...and we know basically everything about each other, we kiss often but it is always soft quick lips only kisses...i really want to try a french kiss but I know she had ...
A. 1 March 2010: She had a bad experience when she was younger with french kisses? - what kind of bad experience could she had possibly been through to not want to try again?
When your alone with her, and your in the middle of having your 'soft lip kisses' ... (read in full...)
I think my vagina is too tight, could I be having some sort of problem?
Q. i tried to have sex with my bf but penetration was hard and too painful so we had to stop whatever we was heading to. most of the times we would only make out and do some oral sex and fingering and it would not hurt me. i get really too wet that he ...
A. 1 March 2010: It doesn't sound like you have any problems with your vagina, go to the doctors and have a smear test, this will help and the nurse can check which will relieve you of any worries.
Its a routine check for women who are sexually active, so you dont... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I can go through with this pregnancy because I don't want to be a single mum with 2 kids to 2 different fathers
Q. I find myself in a tricky situation. Im 7 wks pregnant to a guy ive been with for 5 months hes loves me totally but im not sure i feel the same.i feel something but not sure what. Getting pregnant has been a shock an accident. Ive been single for 3 ...
A. 1 March 2010: Everyone has their situations, and no one should be quick to judge anyone as no ones perfect. First thing forget about the assumptions and views of having '2 children, by 2 dads'. - That doesnt matter, that is the least of your worries.
You a... (read in full...)
What does he mean?
Q. been seeing this really nice guy i liked for ages, been seeing him for about 8 weeks now, everything was going great. he was texting me every day, seeing me every sat night until something changed.. i haven't seen him for 2 weekends because we've ...
A. 28 February 2010: His behaviour has changed, but not to jump to any conclusions; simply text him and ask to arrange a date to see each other as that is what he replies. He could either - not reply, change the subject; make an excuse or arrange a date.
If he arran... (read in full...)
It's unfair, I've been left and he has moved on
Q. I used to go out with this guy just over a year ago. We went out for about 2 years, but it got to the stage where we were on and off for about 3 times. It was always him ending it and me taking him back. We were so close though, I tried to be ...
A. 28 February 2010: i know exactly what your going through, i went through the same thing and have been the past few months or so. After finishing, we kept in contact and carried on as friends, as close as we'd always had been. But it just wasn't helping me to move on, ... (read in full...)
It's unfair, I've been left and he has moved on
Q. I used to go out with this guy just over a year ago. We went out for about 2 years, but it got to the stage where we were on and off for about 3 times. It was always him ending it and me taking him back. We were so close though, I tried to be ...
A. 28 February 2010: i know exactly what your going through, i went through the same thing and have been the past few months or so. After finishing, we kept in contact and carried on as friends, as close as we'd always had been. But it just wasn't helping me to move on, ... (read in full...)
My bestfriend can't make up his mind if he loves me or not!
Q. My best male friend told me he loved me, then the next day he told me he was unsure, i thought he said he was unsure about it because he was worried about my reaction if i loved him back, i told him how i felt; that i had strong feelings for him and ...
A. 28 December 2009: i haven't had sex with him, and we have known each other for 2 years, and have been close for the past year.... (read in full...)
Best friend told me he loved me, everythings changed, now its as if we're not even friends.
Q. My best male friend told me he loved me 2 weeks ago, at first i wasn't sure if he said it jokingly or if he was being serious as he has confronted me about past feelings of being more than friends in the years i've known him. The night he told me...
A. 7 December 2009: i would contact you privately, but as you have replied to my question anonymously i cant. But our situations do seem similar, we have spoken since but things just arent the same, he didnt talk to me until we passed each other in public the next day ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether or not to tell my ex that I lost our baby last week or not.
Q. I dont know whether or not to tell my ex that I lost our baby last week or not. He was awful the way he broke up with me and told me not to contact him again. It was only in the very early stages of pregnancy and i didnt know i was pregnant...
A. 1 December 2009: I think that it would be a good idea to tell him as he was the father, but as you said 'he was awful the way he broke up' with you.
So i would advise you do contact him but NOT face to face if possible, As he did ask you not to contact him.
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I don't want to leave her but feel like it's the last option... What should I do?
Q. Hello, I'm having some problems with my girlfriend, We have been together for around nine months : Now, I have told her several times that I have wanted to leave her, Since to be honest, She doesn't act like a proper girlfriend. And lots of...
A. 26 July 2009: I can see your point of how she doesnt really act like a girlfriend; next time you confront her suggest you both go out somewhere alone and spend time, if she disagrees ask her why not? question her dont give her chances to ease her way out of the ... (read in full...)
How do I stop lying and just end this?
Q. I have been with my bf for 5 years. Over the past year or so my feelings for him have really changed. I can't pin point exactly when it happened or what caused it, but I don't want to be with him anymore. Everytime I hug him, kiss him or we have ...
A. 24 July 2009: Think; what has changed in your relationship with him? .. nothing? maybe your bored.. could you see yourself with another man? the longer you hold onto this unhappy relationship the more damage you'll create and the more it will hurt him.
Sit h... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date your best friends brother?
Q. Hi, needing some advice. Nothing has happened yet but I want to get some advice before it does so that maybe I have a better idea of what I'm doing. A few months ago my best friend went away abroad for a year - shes studying abroad. We're r...
A. 24 July 2009: My best friend dated my older brother in secret and only bothered to tell me because they were about the get caught out by her father! if your gonna do it ask you friend first mention you like him and see what she says, mine didnt and we are no ... (read in full...)
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