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writes:Hi! My boyfriend and I do the same thing every time we have sex. It was fun and exciting at first but now it's just boring.What is some ways I can spice up my sexual experience to bring back the excitement we once had? Reply to this Question
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Guys love it when women initiate sex. SO initiate it. Tell him you want to try some new things, I'm sure he will be more than happy to assist you.
Surprise him. Buy some new lingerie. My guy likes it when I talk dirty or take him by surprise. Depending on your guys preferences, there is a lot out there to spice up your sex life.
Google some things that you would like to try. Positions, perhaps some toys of some kind? Good luck.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (23 November 2010):
You could try some of these for starters: lots of websites offer new/different sexual positions, you can try role play, dressing up, video, go away for a dirty weekend or perhpas try it in more risky places.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): Toys, candles, maybe a lil whip cream bikini lol. Haha I myself have always wanted to tie a woman up and leave her naked on the bed in the dark and make her squeeze my head with her legs while I go down on her ferociously lol hehe.
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reader, CaliMoore +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Suprise your guy, if you get him really hot and turned on it will make you feel the same. The feeling that your irresistable to your partner is a fantastic feeling, and makes sex great. Take it in turns to be in control.
You could start by being extremely flirtious and playful outside of the bedroom, joke around and tease him. Then when it comes to the bedroom suprise him with some 'tools' the most useful but not extreme ones are simple things like the use of a blindfold or hand cuffs and massage oils.
During foreplay whip out a blindfold and tease your guy, he'll be shocked but full of excitement of what other tricks you may have in store. It also makes foreplay last longer which would make the sex even better, having to wait just that bit longer to the point where you both cant wait no more is exciting and definately fun.
Having your guy blindfolded and hand cuffed whilst you give him oral sex and kiss and touch him all over will drive him crazy, if it wasn't bad enough he couldnt watch you to see what you might do, not being able to touch you either will definately thrill him. Tease him, he'll love it and im sure he'll return the favour.
Playfully ask and find out more about eachothers likes and dislikes, positions you'd like to try and other sexual experiments, finding out what turns your partner on is a must! and being able to have the power to make them irresistable to you is great.
Good Luck,x
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