Found a 'sext' on my wife's phone
Q. My wife and I have a wonderful relationship...but I do work a lot and she wishes she had more attention. Anyway a friend of mine recently friend requested her on facebook and I guess began chatting with her. I came home the other night and wa...
A. 13 October 2012: I think everyone has already given you the correct advise. But my feeling is that you have become complacent in your relationship "I have no concern whatsoever that she is going to run off with this guy...she really does love me. I don't think sh... (read in full...)
Why is it so difficult for me to get a girlfriend? Why am I always the guy who girls don't look at in a romantic way?
Q. I give up. What does it take to be dateable? I just don’t get it. I’m told that I have a great, easygoing personality. I’m pretty average I’d say. 5’9, 150 pounds, thin to medium build. I’ve even been told by both my male and female friends ...
A. 21 September 2012: There is a cover for every pot. When you least expect it, you will turn and she will be there. The perfect girl for you and it will be well worth the wait. Remember the hero always arrives just in the nick of time. Perhaps there is already a girl ... (read in full...)
I am in crush with a straight guy
Q. hello there. i am a student from china who is now exchanging in france. i met a guy who is from another school at the public canteen and he is very very handsome. that day he approached me and say he was new in town and do not know anyone. we had a ...
A. 21 September 2012: You seem not to be sure if he is straight or gay. The best would be to ask him if he would like to go the cinema (or similar) with you. If he makes an excuse not to go, then you know he is not interested and nothing more need to be said. If you go ... (read in full...)
How do I stop gay guys from hitting on me? I'm straight!
Q. I don't know whether I should address it at other guys, gals, or perhaps gay men. The problem is that I keep getting hit by gay men. The thing is that I am in no way undecided, I am into women, point. And I'm not exactly the warm, romantic t...
A. 16 September 2012: You are either so extremely handsome that no gay man can resist you or you are obviously giving off gay signals to all these gay men because I don't think straight men get hit on as many times as you are talking about. Perhaps if you had a ... (read in full...)
My parents consider him a criminal and want me to break up with him. Why are they doing this?
Q. I’m 19 years old guy and I’ve a trouble with my parents. I’m gay and my parents know it. And they have nothing against me being gay, but they have something against my boyfriend. I’m dating a wonderful guy for half a year. He really makes me feel ...
A. 16 September 2012: Your parents love you and want the best for you.
You both need to show that your love is strong and you are right for each other. I have no problem with the age difference. You know he is not a criminal. In fact I think your friend is very luc... (read in full...)
After too many arguments I cheated on my girlfriend, with a guy! Now I don't know who I should choose.
Q. I’m 18 years old guy and I’ve very strange situation in my life. It’s kind of about my sexual orientation. I cannot choose between a woman and a man. I’ve a girlfriend and I’ve been together with her for almost half a year. First everything was ...
A. 16 September 2012: You need to answer these questions:
1) Would my girlfriend still want to be with me, if she knew what I had done with this older guy?
2) Did the guy know I had a girlfriend and still ask me to get into his bed. Did he take advantage of me ... (read in full...)
How can he possibly understand how I feel?
Q. okay so my ex of 16 months and i broke up march 15th 2012, he is already married to a girl he'd been dating a month and they have been together 3 months. 14 days before they had gotten married he had told me that he wasn't over me and that he ...
A. 10 September 2012: Hi, I really feel the pain in your problem. I am going through something very similar. My feeling is that he does know that you are suffering and that you still love him, but is helpless to do anything about it. You obviously want to get back with ... (read in full...)
4 years of dating and I get dumped by a text message
Q. i have been with my girlfriend for 4 years, and today she dumped me via text. only recently we were all happy and romantic, but suddenly 3 days later she dumps me randomly. i have been working very hard, therefore have not seen her as much as i ...
A. 10 September 2012: I've just been through a similar experience (although not dumped by text, but dumped on my birthday over the first course in a restaurant!) So I know what you are feeling - the shock, the disbelief, the feeling of betrayal, the humility. If I can ... (read in full...)
I can't get over this male model but he doesn't like me in that way. Should I lose my virginity to him?
Q. Hi, I am a lost person at the moment. I had a thing with a male model we romanced three times with one almost leading to sex but I refused because I knew he did not like me. I still like this guy, even when I forgot him I dream about him and that ...
A. 7 September 2012: I think you know the answer yourself. You did not have sex with him because you knew he didn't like you. You mention "male model" twice, as though it is important. It isn't. You'll regret it if you do. Save your virginity until you meet the right ... (read in full...)
I feel sexually attracted to men but not emotionally or romantically at all. Is this because of hormonal imbalance?
Q. I am a 15 year old male and I was wondering if my sexual orientations are due to hormones? I feel sexually attracted to men but not emotionally or romantically at all.. And I am only attracted to some women (usually middle aged) but have emotional ...
A. 5 September 2012: Hi, its very hard to know exactly what you want at 15, I didn't know what I wanted till I was 30. You may be gay. You may be straight. Experiment a little with pals of both sexes and see what you feel most comfortable with, but take your time - no ... (read in full...)
If someone is ready to be pleasured how can they not be ready to give pleasure?
Q. Is something wrong with me? My boyfriend and I (I am a gay man) have been together almost 3 years, we are getting married in November. We live together and have a very open and public relationship. The problem I am having is in the bedroom. Our...
A. 5 September 2012: I know it's supposed to be better to give than to receive, but you're not receiving anything! He sounds really selfish in the bedroom department and I would hold off on that wedding, otherwise the whole wedding night you'll be on your knees, ... (read in full...)
How can I work on this tendency to keep friends from getting close with someone else?
Q. Hey everyone, I don't know how to put this without making me sound like some crazy freak,I promise I'm not that bad..but I have some major problem.. Well here's the thing I have this problem when someone I love gets close to someone else..su...
A. 1 September 2012: No need to worry. It's just insecurity on your part. Perhaps you're afraid that the new person will take them away from you. It's great that you are aware of it, but try not to act on the feelings though, or it could all back fire and they'll pull ... (read in full...)
I'm back and still in need of help in overcoming my obsession with her
Q. I have made two posts about this girl before if you remember me. Doesn't matter though if you do. I am ashamed to say but I am obsessed over this one girl and I need to know of some tips to get rid of this feeling. So basically like a month ago I ...
A. 1 September 2012: Nothing wrong with dreaming and thinking about her. All quite healthy. The type of school she's at is also no barrier. Is she the same sort of age as you? If it was me I'd say or text something like:
"It's a shame you're in a relationship with 'in... (read in full...)
He's denying anything happened. I know it did (just a little) . So should I just let this drop since he can't be honest with me?
Q. Ive asked questions about my best mate a few times on this site and wondering if he is bisexual or gay and if i had a chance and up untill now nothing has really happened between us except some flirting.. If you havn't read i'll sum up... Basica...
A. 1 September 2012: It sounds to me he's using the alcohol as an excuse to not remember. He might just want to experiment with another 'bi' guy, not necessarily a gay guy. Don't give him a hard time, questioning him. Just go with the flow. a) Ask him out for a drink, ... (read in full...)
Why does he want to keep sabotaging my healthy lifestyle?
Q. I am trying to lose weight. I am not huge at all, but I am too big for my frame and would feel more confident if I lost weight. I also can’t eat a lot of sugary things as they make me feel ill and give me bad skin. My boyfriend knows this, ...
A. 1 September 2012: I've had a relationship like this!! Sounds oh so familiar. I had a boyfriend once, who whenever I started a diet and started to lose weight would say "I've made your favourite today. Mousse with milk and white chocolate" The answer is clear as day. ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if he'd like to go for a drink with me, I don't even know whether or not he's gay?
Q. OK. This might sound comparatively trivial in light of some other posts, and perhaps a bit of a cliche as well. Anyway. There's a guy in a shop in my town. He's very attractive, has a great smile... you know the thing. I've been in there severa...
A. 1 September 2012: I really get a sense of who you are from your writing style and I must say you sound a lovely guy.
Anyway let me just say, that it is difficult for some people to start conversations. I'm older than you and I STILL have problems. I keep my eyes ... (read in full...)
My partner cheated and says he doesn't know why but it was 4 different times!
Q. Ok so here goes...After 9 years together and nearly two years Married, My partner has had a so called affair. I found out in June that he met another guy from an IPHONE app called Grindr, and this fella he met came into our home on 3 occasion...
A. 1 September 2012: You've got to ask and answer yourself the following five questions HONESTLY:
1) My partner has cheated on me. Do I love him enough to continue the relationship?
2) My partner has cheated on me a second time. Do I love him enough to contin... (read in full...)
Is this man too old for me?
Q. I'm 18 years old gay guy and I've something like a question about situation in my life. I'm receiving attention from a man who's much older than me. He's 32, actually very handsome and he does all he can to get my attention. Several times he has ...
A. 1 September 2012: If you were any younger than 18, I'd tell you to kick him in the nuts, run a mile, while calling the police. But at 18 you are an adult. You obviously like spending time with each other, so I don't really see a problem. He sounds like a very kind ... (read in full...)
I like him but am unsure if he's gay and wonder if I'm misreading his body language?
Q. I'm unsure if this guy in my welsh class likes me, the truth is I'm 15 and Gay nobody knows so it makes it harder for me to be able to bite the bullet with this situation. I think he's rather good looking and I've always seemed to talk to him with...
A. 1 September 2012: I'd try to arrange to meet up with him after school. Say something like "I really want to see that new film at the cinema. You fancy coming with me" or arrange to go to the swimming pool. Make it look cool and not contrived and if he says "No" and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not giving me attention but I don't think it's his fault
Q. I have started dated a guy and he is the guy of my dreams. He is everything I Ever wanted and we have even fallen in love with each other. The thing about it is he lives a hour away with family and I live with mind and we can't see each other ...
A. 1 September 2012: You both can't work every day! There must be a day when you can both meet up. If he doesn't want to meet up with you on his day's off then unfortunately you've got your answer. Perhaps you can arrange a holiday together - to spend some time ... (read in full...)
The girl I love and my ex are going on holiday together
Q. Where do I begin? I've recently split up with my girlfriend of 7 years as I'm in love with someone else. Everything is a mess, our lives are all so interwoven and it's been the process of many years. There has always been something betwee...
A. 1 September 2012: Wow, what a mess! Sounds to me like the girl you were having the affair with, was only interested in you, when you were involved with someone else and wasn't interested in you when you were available. She is also happy to continue to have a ... (read in full...)
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