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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have started dated a guy and he is the guy of my dreams. He is everything I Ever wanted and we have even fallen in love with each other. The thing about it is he lives a hour away with family and I live with mind and we can't see each other everyday because he work and I work. He use to work a job that had good hours and we were able to talk all the time but that job shut down and he was put somewhere else. he works longer hours and can't be on the phone much. We barely get to talk at all because he is working and when he gets off work he goes right to sleep and when I get off he is knocked out. He sometime text me good morning and stuff but I'm starting not to like this. Things pop up in my head that maybe he is cheating or maybe he doesnt like me no more. We barely talk with The new job he has and I gotta be honest I wanna feel affection I wanna be talked to more often. He cant be sleeping every minute everyday when he gets off because i know he has a life going on he lives with his brothers and they usually do alot of things i tell myself I know he not cheating or nothing...it's his job. He says he so sorry and he loves me but his job has him so tired and he can't help it. He say he be so sleep. I understood at first but I want more attention. Because I wanna feel he is there. What should we do....or what can I do?
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reader, Biffo  +, writes (1 September 2012):
You both can't work every day! There must be a day when you can both meet up. If he doesn't want to meet up with you on his day's off then unfortunately you've got your answer. Perhaps you can arrange a holiday together - to spend some time together.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (4 August 2012):
 The only thing that you can do here is be completely honest with him. Tell him exactly how you are feeling. I know that you might not want to accept it but he might simply just not have the time for a relationship at the moment. You both need to make more effort for things to work out. So talk to him face to face the next time you see him and try and come to some arrangement where you can both talk for even 5 minutes a day and meet up as much as you can.
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