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If tl;dr, to put it simply I'm just a geeky girl with big dreams :].
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Was I being a pushover by agreeing to my friend's demands?
Q. I've had my best friend for about 5 years. He's a dude and I'm a chick but we have a really siblingish friendship, we're the same age and we often tell each other everything. But recently he's been kind of selfish and insensitive. ...
A. 30 April 2012: Thanks guys!
I told him my prices I give to clients who ask me to paint them something, and I told him if he wanted paintings he'd have to pay up. He agreed and felt it was fair c: I hope in the future he thinks twice before bombarding me like thi... (read in full...)
I always have to text first
Q. if he doesn't text me first what does that mean? i always am the one to start the conversation......
A. 26 October 2011: I agree with Sageoldguy1465.
I had this problem with an ex of mine. He almost never texted me and I found myself itching to text him all the time.
Word of advice: Stop.
It's called the Cat String theory. Basically, if you dangle a string i... (read in full...)
Opinions on my strange dream??
Q. I had an odd dream last night. I dreamed I was preoccupied with daily tasks when I received a text message from a my current love interest. I saw who the message was from on my phone, but I never read the text in my dream. I never opened the text to ...
A. 26 October 2011: Scientifically, dreams are just the mind running amok in our sleep.
I've learned from experience that dreams often don't mean anything. I've had dreams where I'm having sex with people I don't really know in my class, and other dreams where I ... (read in full...)
Did I drop too many hints that I liked her?
Q. Dear Cupid... First, I would like to say that I'm a really shy guy and have never gotten into a relationship before. I've met a sweet girl through facebook and we are both in the same fanclub of our favourtie singer...
A. 26 October 2011: To be honest, yes it is quite off-putting when you're good friends with a guy and suddenly they show obvious signs that they like you when you don't feel the same way.
Actually just a while ago, I had this guy friend I've known for years. He sudde... (read in full...)
My classmates are sexually active or in relationships. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. Im 15 and Im in ninth grade. Half of the kids in my grade had already lost their virginity (Im not one of them of course), and 3 of my 5 best friends have a boyfriend. Ive never had a boyfriend in my life, never been kissed etc. Im not a lesbian,or ...
A. 26 October 2011: DO NOT FEEL THAT WAY.
Seriously. I actually know that feeling, I'm 15 in 10th grade (will be 16 in November) and I've only had one boyfriend before and that was for a month in 8th grade. Lots of people in my grade are dating and at first I was li... (read in full...)
How do I spark her interest with a message on facebook?
Q. Hiya everyone..thanks in advance for your help. I saw this really cute girl on facebook and sent her a friend request which she accepted. I now want to break the ice by sending her a nice first message(would really like to go out with her)..she ...
A. 26 October 2011: Well, don't be too blunt and not too fast. I know once a guy just messaged me right off the bat if I had a boyfriend (which I said no to) and he proceeded to ask me out. I had never been SO turned off in my life. The reason why is that it feels like ... (read in full...)
Why did this player start laughing so loud after we had sex?
Q. hi, I was having sex with this player..we enjoy the chemistry between us and he just cannot commit. Anyhow, my question is not about commitment but about sex. We've had sex several times over the years..Usually it is sensual and soooo much chemi...
A. 21 October 2011: So...you guys had sex, then after you guys lied in silence, and then suddenly he burst into laughter, and then didn't say anything about it after...? Not to be rude, but WHY are you having sex with a PLAYER? That's objectifying yourself; treati... (read in full...)
How can I know if my teacher really thinks that I'm like a son to her?
Q. my friend told my english teacher that i think of her as a second mother and she told him that she thinks of me as her son but i'm not sure that she thinks that i'm a son to her. so how could i know if she really thinks of me as a son to her?...
A. 13 October 2011: Maybe just ask your teacher? ... (read in full...)
At night, my girlfriend scares me over the phone by talking about ghosts, how should I cope with it?
Q. I am in SDR with girl who lives in the same city between we have distance of 15 KMs between us. It’s been almost two years since we together. We meet over the weekend and keep it going through phone . For the last two weeks, my girlfriend has p...
A. 7 October 2011: How about you pull a prank on her in return? Like a hand buzzer or something else that could startle/scare her a bit. Then when she's all frazzled, remind her that she's done the same to you and that you both should agree to stop :)... (read in full...)
What do 18 year old girls mean when they call boys 'hun', 'babe' etc?
Q. I bet everyone is going to call my question dumb, but I reckon a lot of lads wonder the same. I often struggle to know whether girls see me as a friend, 'brother' or sexual attractive. What do 18 year old girls mean when they call boys 'hun', 'babe' ...
A. 2 October 2011: It depends on their personality. If your female friends are calling you those terms, they might just be being friendly.
I have a guy friend that's pretty much my brother and I call him 'baby' and 'love'. It's to be lighthearted and fun; I could ne... (read in full...)
How do I make guys interested in me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm an average sized 15 yr. old girl- 5'6", 130lbs, ect.. and I model on the side. But guys at my school have never showed interest in me. I'm outgoing and athletic and generally easy to get along with, but they find me unattractive!...
A. 1 October 2011: Your description of yourself sounds like me (excluding the fact that you model on the side). I'm thinking you're still young, so don't rush it. I've got friends my age and even older who've never been in a relationship or kissed. Schools are a ... (read in full...)
Crushing on the prostitute I lost it with
Q. Basically, i lost my virginity to a prostitute in Berlin this summer, I dont regret it or have any moral problems with it whatsoever, I dont care that it wasn't with someone 'special' or that she didn't having any 'feelings' for me or any bullsh*t ...
A. 30 September 2011: I understand what you're going through. Seriously, I do.
I mean, I've never been with a prostitute...or even met one, but what you describe you're feeling sounds like me; I am totally madly crushing on my TEACHER. Yeah, a far stretch from a prosti... (read in full...)
I want to date and marry but do not want an arranged marriage!
Q. Hi, I'll try keeping this as simple as I can. Arranged marriage makes no sense to me. They're just selfish egomaniac contracts between two families and the woman and the man. I don't want this. Love is very scary for me, for it may bring he...
A. 12 June 2011: Hm...? I don't really understand your question.
You went on about how you dislike arranged marriages, but you never once said that you were in that situation. So...are you? Because otherwise the first few paragraphs concerning arranged marriage... (read in full...)
My Bf said no to her. She still flirts with him. How do I cope with this situation?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend a year and 1 month now we met when i started uni saw each other for 6 months before getting together. and i met all his friends and who hed been with. there was one girl who he almost become sex buddies with bec...
A. 12 June 2011: Well there's no surefire way to really relax when something like this is happening, but it really does sound like your boyfriend is firm and stands his ground. Don't worry about that girl; I personally think she's acting quite foolish to be so ... (read in full...)
We are not officially bf/gf. Is it my right to be worried about who else he sees? Especially two particular girls?
Q. Just a bit of background info on me I really like this guy in my class and recently he said he would really like to try to take things a bit further. So we have been going out but not officially. Anyway we have completely different circle...
A. 12 June 2011: Well you're being a bit vague about this whole thing, but if he's really a nice guy and he's really serious about you (even though you're technically not going out), he won't let them get to him.
Guys aren't as shallow as girls take them for (alt... (read in full...)
Is it possible I'm reading more into this?
Q. hi ladies. im just wondering about this woman i dated briefly. i know she liked me for a few months before i asked her out but we never talked. i always seen her looking at me and when caught she turned her head very quick. major reason i was aware ...
A. 12 June 2011: Her sometimes smiling and sometimes looking mad might be because she wants to be nice as in "no hard feelings?" and her mad looks might be 'cause she's having a bad day and seeing you dampens her mood all the more.
I think she doesn't sound in... (read in full...)
You're going to lose your girlfriend if you don't stop acting like a jerk!
Q. hi... i broke up with my bf a couple of weefs ago... i still love him so much, but in this past few months he had been giving a really hard time! he's very insecure and during our relationship we had a lot of arguments because he thought i was...
A. 11 June 2011: Don't take this the wrong way, but I think YOU are the one being a jerk here.
Relationships are not one-sided. They require the love, help, and participation of both sides. He was doing his part by being very open about when he was feeling ... (read in full...)
My neighbour is the perfect girl -- what do I do?
Q. Hey, so i just moved into a new place and right next door is a perfect woman for me. She's beautiful smart and can cook (what else does a man wants right?) She just got out of a relationship and I want to be the next and final guy she will be ...
A. 17 April 2011: Alright, well, she's just got out of a relationship, so you've gotta just approach her!! When I broke up with my boyfriend I was super sad and mopey for quite a while, and I just wanted to vent and find someone else. You can be that someone else for ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel about him?
Q. Hello right, could you please help me I'm a 13 year old girl and I have the biggest ever crush on my 40 year old teacher and I know nothing will ever happen because there is a 27 year age difference and he is married and his wife resently had a ...
A. 13 April 2011: Hey girl. You sound exactly like how I was a month ago!! No joke. I was totally madly in love with my math teacher and I was so obsessed I visited him in his room after school almost everyday. Up until a month ago, I was in this same obsessive c... (read in full...)
He's making my teacher crush go away. Do you think he likes me?
Q. Help please! For about two years I've been crushing on my teacher and he's always been dreamy and made me feel like I was floating just from a smile or a greeting. I never wanted anything more than just to see him at school everyday. Unt...
A. 11 April 2011: Thanks both of you!
@female anon: Good idea, I'll keep an eye out for more subtle hints. Thanks :)
@male anon: Oh I never knew guys didn't like hearing about other guys so much. I'll keep that in mind. I think I'll have to drop him some hints. ... (read in full...)
How can a boy like a girl and suddenly change their mind?
Q. how can a boy like a girl and suddenly cnage their mind for no reason?...
A. 11 April 2011: Oh my god, I asked myself the exact same question a while ago. It just seemed over night he'd gone from loving me to dumping me out of the blue.
But I've actually experienced sudden love dying too. It just happens. They can't control it. Let it b... (read in full...)
Exit Only
Q. My husband is always trying to put things where they don't belong. I don't like THAT KIND of sex, but I feel bad for refusing him. Why does he like it so much? Can't he read the sign "exit only"???...
A. 11 April 2011: I'm sure he respects your wishes if you tell him nicely that you're just not into anal. You guys ARE married, so you must've been in bigger disagreements than just a measly one like this :) Don't feel bad, it happens to a lot of people.... (read in full...)
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