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writes:I am in SDR with girl who lives in the same city between we have distance of 15 KMs between us. It’s been almost two years since we together. We meet over the weekend and keep it going through phone . For the last two weeks, my girlfriend has picked up strange prank over the phone when talk after 12am that she tries to scare me by saying look there are ghosts and witches outside your room and trying to get in. It scares me in real since my room located in an area that’s not the crowded and I am alone in my room. I have tried several times to make her understand that these kind of talks about paranormal activities can scare anyone at night but she just doesn’t understand. I know she loves me but this thing really makes me restless at nights. Now it’s taking me to breaking point; how should cope with this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Batterytea  +, writes (7 October 2011):
 How about you pull a prank on her in return? Like a hand buzzer or something else that could startle/scare her a bit. Then when she's all frazzled, remind her that she's done the same to you and that you both should agree to stop :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011): Sweetheart! Just turn off your phone at 11.45 p.m. and don't take any more calls until the morning.
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reader, Nime  +, writes (20 September 2011):
 This has got to be the most adorable post I've ever read here. OP, your girlfriend probably likes to scare you because she finds your reaction cute!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2011): You may not all believe in me but I have experiences about ghosts and had witnessed my cousin's wife who was possessed by some unknown being...had an experience I thought I saw my Mom passing by me but her face was not visible and when I looked back and called her she was not there. When I went down stairs I saw her with a different clothes and when I asked her if she was upstairs just a moment ago, she said No.
I know some people may not believe about this but I have lots of experiences and now, I am not scared any longer if I feel unusual coming around. I just don't get scared any longer.
My point of sharing this to you is just to tell you...it is not scary at all. Be scared of some people or an individual but not with ghosts
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reader, N91  +, writes (20 September 2011):
 I agree with marie clare, you're over 26 years old, this is something you'd laugh off. Pretty childish of your gfs part too!
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (20 September 2011):
 You need to be more forceful in telling her that you will not listen to her when she starts talking about ghosts and witches. I know you have already told her how much it disturbs you, and she keeps on doing it, so now tell her you will hang up the next time she starts in on this topic. Let her know it may be just a prank on her part, but you don't like it. Give her a chance to respond, but having warned her you'll hang up next time she begins, DO SO - end the call immediately if she brings it up again!
Good luck!
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