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First time sex, I couldn't get all the way in! Is this normal?

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Question - (3 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2008)
A male Uganda age 41-50, *manio writes:

We had sex for the first time with my GF and i found that i could not insert deeply my penis to her "thing". what must be the problem? is it that my penis is too big or her thing is too small. my penis is normal size. please advice. because we will soon have another sex.

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A male reader, apathyslastkiss Canada +, writes (4 December 2008):

apathyslastkiss agony aunthow big is your penis? What is "normal" to you? Average penis size is roughly 5 to 6 inches long. But don't look at things as "too big" or "too small" - everybody is different. Just be gentle with her, and don't worry if it doesn't fit all the way in. Because every woman's vagina is different, and every man's penis is different, there will always be different "fits." Don't worry about it - it doesn't have to go all the way in.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008):

If it was her first time, she was probably nervous, and thus became 'tight'. You need to help her to relax, maybe have a glass or two of wine (not much, just a little to help her relax), lots of foreplay, and be gentle! Don't just rush ahead with it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008):

Is she a virgin? if so you will prob find she has a tough hymen, try getting her really excited with loads of foreplay and also use some lube a try giving it one big push to start of and hold it in until it feel comfortable for her, (it might hurt her as the hymen tares), if she isn't a virgin try different possitions doggy is alway a good one.

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