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*pathyslastkiss
writes: Poll: What has been your most pleasurable, or most erotic sexual experience and why? Details and explanation are encouraged. My hope is that the answers will benefit those looking for ideas in their own respective sex lives. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, apathyslastkiss +, writes (7 December 2008):
apathyslastkiss is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondaletom, I think you may have just given the best and most meaningful response. I hope I can have similar experiences when I get married. Thank you for sharing.
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reader, daletom +, writes (7 December 2008):
"Pleasurable" generally has more to do with who you're with, and knowing that you're making her feel good, than any external factors.
Most meaningful and significant has to be my wife and I exchanging virginity (she took mine, and I got hers in return) on our wedding night. It was also perhaps the lousiest sex we ever had. (Second most significant was about 5 months earlier, when she had her very first orgasm with her thighs wrapped around my ears.)
A wide range of outdoor experiences are easily the most sensual: moonlight, night breezes, sun on naked bodies, the scents of a meadow, the way beach sand molds around your bodies, etc. Or skinny dipping in the early evening, waist deep in water about 50 yards off a public beach in Florida.
Being a little risky is a special thrill: in the office after hours, sneaking into a restroom together, in the back seat at a parking garage.
Some memorable incidents are hard to categorize, like the first (or last) times in the various houses we've lived in. Or the time we had a roomette on an overnight Amtrak train, turning down the lights and opening the curtains so we could make love while the world rushed past.
And yes, if you're wondering, at least one gray-haired old couple - whose kids are older than you - have actually done every one of these things.
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reader, Too Sensitive +, writes (3 December 2008):
Being laid out on the hood of the car and gone down on, in broad daylight...yes, the car was parked in the lot behind the house, but we had left a bbq, and anyone could have walked up on us...Being rubbed while sitting on the stairs to the 2nd floor and holding onto the railing...but I have a thing about stairs...Sitting on his lap, my back to him, both of us sitting on a chair by the window, watching my son (very young at the time) play in the yard (he was oblivious we were looking out the window at him, and all he would have seen was our heads anyway). He was inside me, gently and slowly sliding in and out, and rubbing my clit all the while...the combination of the dual stimulation and the taboo of my son being close by gave me an unbelievably earthshattering orgasm...it was so intensely erotic...Doing it in a motel room with who up to that point had been an acquaintance, while his friend slept in the bed next to us...that was so hot, not only b/c it was our first time, but b/c we knew we might get caught, and we did...he woke up while we were in the middle of it all! We then stopped out of courtesy for him (a little late, I know) and moved things outside...there are more, but these are most memorable. Seems I have a thing for the thrill of possibly getting caught! I would never openly have sex in front of my son, and now that he's a teenager and knows about the facts of life, I'm more paranoid than ever, nervous that he's going to hear us, which now puts a damper on things!I've noticed that the previous replies are "anonymous", but I've decided that since no one here knows who I am anyway, what the hell...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): me n my bf were in a train cabin with 4 other strangers travelling in the same cabin. each one of us had a berth. i was in one of the two top most births. On the opposite side was another young couple. In the night my bf creeped in to mine and we were totally naked under the blankets and he fucked me so hard. Knowing that the other couple could see us in the act was so wild.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): Probably the time my boyfriend and i were driving to go visit his mother whos house was about 2 hours away, and i started to give him head while he was driving, then he grabbed me by the hair and told me to fuck him, so i climbed onto his lap (while he was still driving) and fucked him.. it was hella thrilling seeing as he was driving, people could see us, and the though of us crashing made my heart pound....scary, but amazing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): Probably when me and my gf first tried it from behind.And I really done it hard and she started moaning (shes very quiet and shy). It just really turned me on, She then around and let me cum on her face. And just before I did she loked up at me and bit her lower lip. And smiled as I cumming.
It was great
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