I heard you can cum inside a girl and she won't get pregnant?
Q. I really need your advice here aunts and everyone else. So my g/f is virgin and me too and we will have sex when we both feel ready for it, it won't be very soon though because we both want to take out time. My question is: I know the first time i ...
A. 24 January 2009: There is a certain period of the month where a women can't get pregnant, but I still wouldn't advise cumming inside of her.
I would advise getting the pill, if used correctly you can cum inside of her all you want. It beats using a condom.... (read in full...)
This man is humiliating me!
Q. i have moved to italy with my partner and two kids one girl 12 (her dad is not involved with her life) and our son 2years old.... my partner is never home is is a long distance truck driver, he is completly no fun what so ever he moans about ...
A. 24 January 2009: Call the authorities, whather you've got the funds or not they'll help you get away from that.
I'd suggest leaving the guy, it's not fair for you to be that unhappy, and it's not something the kids should have to see either.... (read in full...)
I feel sex is so one sided with us...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having problems that have almost split us up twice. I have a higher sex drive than he does but I have never been pushy, asked for sex or demanded it or anything like that. I have backed off so much trying to make t...
A. 22 January 2009: Sit down and talk it out with him, even if he doesn't feel perfectly fine being intimate as often as you'd like, he should be considerate enough to make you happy regardless.... (read in full...)
I don't think she is showing me her true self, her true life?
Q. hi there, first i would like to thank you all for your previous advises to heal my inferiority complex...this days something has happened to me...there was this girl whom we are working together in a bank...we begin it as a friend, we discuss on ...
A. 22 January 2009: She just likes the attention, if someone will tune in to hear what she has to say she probably eats it up.... (read in full...)
Have I lost perspective on my wife's sexual past?
Q. Have I lost perspective on my wife's sexual past? When we first started dating, we told each other about our past. I had a 2 yr relationship. She had dated in high school, and did some heavy petting. Then just a month before we met, she dated a ...
A. 22 January 2009: You should believe her when she says how she feels.
If she didn't mean it you wouldn't be her husband.... (read in full...)
I'm a 17 year old girl and he's 21... Is that too much of an age gap?
Q. So there is this guy that I've known for a few years, and my mom and everyone on her side of the family seems to like him, so you can call him a famiyl friend, if you will. I feel that there is something between us, but I'm nervous to go on because ...
A. 21 January 2009: No way, I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 24.
If anything, I think you'd be making a smarter move dating a guy who isn't 17, the maturity level would be noticable for sure. ... (read in full...)
An act that proves a guy likes you is when he makes fun of you. Is this True?
Q. An act that proves a guy likes you is when he makes fun of you. Is this True? ...
A. 8 January 2009: Absoloutley, if the guy is twelve and has never come close to having anything serious with a woman.... (read in full...)
Was sex with me pre planned???
Q. Hi, I have been seeing a guy recently. We went on about 3-4 dates before I actually invited him over to my place. I prepared a small dinner for him (he got the wine) and then we cozied up and watched a movie. It was perfect, really. We ended...
A. 8 January 2009: He probably didn't have any expectations of having sex, but he probably realized it was a possibily, and as probably hopeful, so he brought some condoms. No biggy there.
However, if he comes twice, doesn't tell you, then just ups and walks ou... (read in full...)
Are we too old to have children?
Q. Hi I'm new to this, I'm 37 and my girlfriend is a little bit younger. We have not been together long and I know one day she wants children. Are we too old to have children? I don't want to my children to think their dad is old, but I'm not...
A. 8 January 2009: My parents had me when my mom was 36 and my dad was 40. A bit older sure, but I wouldn't say too old.... (read in full...)
He told me he had a girlfriend but he doesn't!?
Q. what is he thinking? I’ve posted a question like this before about the same guy but I didn’t know if he had a girlfriend for real. I’m going to try to make this long story short it might be long but I really need your help. So there’s this guy that...
A. 7 January 2009: He's just not interested. Sucks to hear, but if he's telling you he has a girlfriend and he doesn't, he just doesn't want to tell you straight up that he isn't interested in a relationship.... (read in full...)
Penis size opinions - help
Q. Hello to everyone. I am about to have sex with my girlfriend and I am really concerned about the size of my penis.It's about 4-4,5 inches in length and about 4,5 inches in girth when erect. I am quite fat for my age (21), about 246 pounds (for BMI...
A. 26 December 2008: It's is a bit on the smaller side that's true, but think of it this way,if a finger can do the trick, you've got plently to work with.
And as far as the weight loss revealing more of your penis, just try pushing back on the skin around your pen... (read in full...)
What to do to make him last longer in bed?
Q. My boyfriend doesn't last very long when we have sex, a few minutes max! and it's over so quick i don't get anything from it. We are still in the early stages of the relationship and i was wondering if there was anything i could do to make him last ...
A. 26 December 2008: Get him to go slower, he might be able to last longer. Get him to have a few drinks beforehand, that coud help too.
I'd also try some different positions, personally I know if I'm doing missionary I can last about twice as long as I can in most ... (read in full...)
Can you get AIDS from kissing?
Q. i kissed my ex girlfriend for the first time . i am kinda very deeply stressed after that. i know i am being a phycho asking this but will this cause me AIDS ? i trust her completely but still she is a stranger for me afteral and i cant be sure of ...
A. 26 December 2008: For starters, the odds of her actually having AIDS is super low.
And no, you can't get it from kissing. Unless she has a cut lip, or even very badly chapped lips (to the point they're cracked and bleeding), a recently pierced tongue could do the t... (read in full...)
Jealousy - I feel silly
Q. Ok. I feel like an idiot for writing this but here goes. My wife and I have been married over 13 years with 2 kids and one on the way. Anyway she opened up a face book account and is now "friends" with her old boyfriend online. She never tried to...
A. 26 December 2008: Having someone on your facebook doesn't make them a friend. I have my ex-grilfrind on my facebook, I haven't talked to her in years.... (read in full...)
What makes someone popular? Where am I going wrong then?
Q. Hi I consider myself to be a caring and sincere person. Being a counsellor was always a dream. I have a good sense of humour I think, a couple of kids, a home, a job, a car, animals. I like being on my own for now. My kids are early teens and I th...
A. 26 December 2008: You don't seem to be doing too bad. As far as the facebook thing goes, I have a few hundred people on my facebook, doesn't mean I'm friends with all of them, I don't even know some of the people on ym facebook. So I wouldn't worry about that.
... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents that I'm dating their friend?
Q. I've been seeing my dad's friend for a few months, he is quite a bit older than me. How do I tell my mum and dad about it?...
A. 15 December 2008: I'd ease them into it. I'd also tell your mom first if I were in your position, I can see you dad getting a bit upset with his friend over it.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is abusing me and the police don't help
Q. About 16 months ago, I buy a House with my GirlFriend. She have one Girl (18) and a boy (15). The house have 3 Bedroom and 2 rooms. 3 months after moving in to the house, I ask permission (yes. permission) to go to my friends house to visit (...
A. 15 December 2008: If I were you I'd put my foot down, and make it clear that I'm more than just a guest.
I'd suggest you get a lawyer though, you could do without someone like that.... (read in full...)
How can we make anal less painful?
Q. my husband and I tried anal for the first time about a month ago. He says he has always liked it.. it was my first time and I really didn't. I was told it is very dangerous, and is a no no. I have seen it done in movies and jesus, those people ...
A. 15 December 2008: Use a condom and lots of lube.... (read in full...)
Need guy's advice about bj's
Q. ok, so most people are so open about questions on here so im ganna try it out. me and my boyfriend have been dateing 13 months, and weve only had sex once. but lately he's been doing down on me alot. and i wanna like return the favor, and he...
A. 15 December 2008: Ask him how he wants it when/if you do decide to do it.
So long as it's wet and you watch your teeth I can't see why it wouldn't be good.... (read in full...)
Any tips for experimenting with sex?
Q. Hi, Any ideas and tips for experimenting in sex? - Anything to do with costume/roleplay? -New positions? -Any good lubes? -Toys? -Places to do it? Any answers to these or more would be great :) Ta xx ...
A. 15 December 2008: Ever check out any kamasutra positions? If you're looking for something new they can be alot of fun.... (read in full...)
If you swallow sperm, can you get pregnant?
Q. Hi, my question is really embarrassing and I know a lot of people will feel awkward answering it... but I have always wandered but I am to embarrassed to ask any one else... Ok so I'll cut to the chase... basically if cum (sperm) gets on or in any o...
A. 15 December 2008: Nothing embarassing about it. And no, you can't get pregnant from swallowing.... (read in full...)
What should I do with my pubic hair?
Q. I don't know whether or not to shave my pubic hair. I have shaved it in the past, but let it grow back as I was not sure if girls are 'meant to' do this - I heard that it is a matter of opinion, but I am still unsure of what to do - where and how ...
A. 15 December 2008: If you've got a boyfriend you can ask how he'd prefer it.
If that's not the case, go with whatever is most comfortable.... (read in full...)
What does it mean to have "game"?
Q. When someone asks "do you have game?" or when one says "I've got GAME" what does this exactly mean? I know sometimes it can be said in quite a conceited way, usually said from one to the opposite sex, but what does it exactly mean??? Thank you!...
A. 10 December 2008: Basically means you're smooth. A guy that would be considered a player would be thought to have game.... (read in full...)
What is the best masturbatory device for us men?
Q. Hi guys an gals - ok so we keep hearing about 'rampant rabbits' and the like for you gals, but what do y'all think is the best masturbatory device for us men? (Bin on my own lately an my right arms' knackered!)...
A. 10 December 2008: I'd go for warming lube and a fleshlight.
If I were you though, I'd just try and find a lady to do it for me.... (read in full...)
His "finishing pattern" is weird when we have sex.
Q. Hii! :] My bf and I have been having sex lately for the past 3 weeks... he's 19 and I'm 17. Usually about 5 times a week we use protection and everything but his pattern for finishing is weird.... our first time he lasted about 10 minutes and now he ...
A. 10 December 2008: Yeah I'd say it's normal.
I find certain things make a difference, if I'm having sex a bunch of times throughout the day I usually last the longest the fist time. If he's been drinking or not that can affect how long he takes to finish too.... (read in full...)
Instead of masturbation, what are other ways I can pleasure myself sexually?
Q. Instead of masturbation, what are other ways I can pleasure myself sexually?...
A. 9 December 2008: Finding a girl is always an option, or a guy if that's what you're into.... (read in full...)
I ejaculated inside, is there a chance of pregnancy if she takes the pill?
Q. Help! Me and my girlfriend always have sex without a condom but i pull out and although i know that isnt completely effective we both feel better that i do. but last night we both got caught up in sex that i ended up cuming inside her. She take...
A. 7 December 2008: So long as she's been taking a pill for over a week I think it's safe.... (read in full...)
When I like a guy, I eventually get bored and irritated when he gets attached, help!
Q. Okay i have a major prob, i don't quite see the prospect of dating anyone with the way am functioning. The prob is as follows : For eg. i like a guy..like him for max a month or something...then he starts to crush back..then wehave a good ti...
A. 7 December 2008: Well if you don't like it when a guy developes feelings for you, why would you want a boyfriend?... (read in full...)
What are these stomach pains every morning and how can I stop being so paranoid about them?
Q. I have a major problem. Every single morning I get up my stomach always has some kind of pain and every day I feel like I'm gonna get my period but instead it's just like a clear goo like discharge. But every day something is coming out of me ...
A. 12 November 2008: Your best bet would be a doctor.
I can't explain the discharge, but the stomach aches could just be a result of worrying too much.... (read in full...)
Do you think my teacher has feelings for me?
Q. I'll try to keep this as short as I can because I know, a lot of agony aunts or uncles must be fed up of the classic "does my teacher fancy me?". Well, basically I'm 16, from 13-14, i had a crush on her, but i got over it,I hadn't accepted that I ...
A. 12 November 2008: I'd just take Phil's advice and ask her. Quickest way to find out.... (read in full...)
Should I come clean and tell her how old I really am?
Q. Alright so I'm looking for a bit of advice here. I'm 18, and the other night I got a fake ID and went to a bar, where I met a girl there who was 23. She asked me how old I was, so I said 19 because I didn't want to look like the one underaged ja...
A. 12 November 2008: Told her last night, went over better than I thought. If anyone asks while I'm visiting I just up my age by a couple years and that's that.... (read in full...)
Should I go to this party?
Q. I have been invited to a party by my ex boyfriends sister, i dont know if i should go or not, as my new boyfriend thinks it would be wrong for me to go, but my friend thinks that my new boyfriend is worried that i will get back with my ex, as we ...
A. 11 November 2008: If I was your boyfriend I'd be thinking the same thing, is it really worth upsetting your boyfriend that much? Unless it's going to be a really great party I wouldn't go.... (read in full...)
Should I come clean and tell her how old I really am?
Q. Alright so I'm looking for a bit of advice here. I'm 18, and the other night I got a fake ID and went to a bar, where I met a girl there who was 23. She asked me how old I was, so I said 19 because I didn't want to look like the one underaged ja...
A. 11 November 2008: That is pretty good, never thought of it that way.
She got a hold of me on MSN though and told me to call her last night so I did, arranged something so I'm going to be spending a weekend with her. But she still brought up my age a few times, s... (read in full...)
Should I abide by my wife's last wish?
Q. I came home from work this morning and found my wife unconscious then I had to take her to the hospital where she died. She committed suicide. In her note she specified that she did NOT want anyone to know that she took her life. It is the only main ...
A. 25 September 2008: First of all, I'm realy sorry for your loss. Secondly, if I were you I'd repesct her wishes and not tell anyone she committed suicide. If by some chance people find out the truth and decide to question you about it, just tell them why you lied, an... (read in full...)
Am I weird for not having french kissed someone yet?
Q. Hey Guys :D In need of a little advice. I am 16 and I want to know if its weird that I am a vl and haven't fully kissed a boy. I have pecked someone on the lips but never frenched kissed someone. Am I weird? Thanks for any advice you give...
A. 25 September 2008: I find alot of girls don't kiss with tongue, even if you're making out sometimes they'll just give you many long prolonged pecks.... (read in full...)
What's he hiding???
Q. My boyfriend and me had sex but for some reason he kept his boxers on. When I tried to pull them down it he would jerk away. Why? ...
A. 25 September 2008: Just a shot in the dark here, maybe he'd gone a long time without a trimming.
Or maybe he just felt nervous being completely naked with a girl, i can't see any other reason for not taking them off.... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me a good website where I can get videos on how to have sex?
Q. Can anyone tell me a good website where i can get videos on how to have sex?...
A. 30 June 2008: Basically any porn videos show you how to have sex. Probably shouldn't post this link here, but you asked [Moderators Note] You're quite right. Porn links not allowed.:-)... (read in full...)
How long will it take until I'm ready for sex?
Q. Hi I know you lot are good at answering these, and i could do with a bit of advice Im going to sound really big headed now, but people say im really nice looking, and i do get a lot of interest from girls. Some ask me to meet them, but i get ner...
A. 20 June 2008: If I were you I'd wait it out until atleast another year of puberty.... (read in full...)
Don't men enjoy going down on their ladies?
Q. I need a little advice about oral sex. I always thought that men loved to give oral sex to their ladies, but recently discovered that my husband of 8 years may not like to give it. We are both 28 years old. I make sure I always shower first and ...
A. 18 June 2008: Of the guys I know my age who;ve done it they all claim to dislike doing it. Alot of guys just find the idea gross, or the smell, or w/e.
Personally I like giving oral as much as getting it.... (read in full...)
I get depressed about my "small" boobs...
Q. im 18 and just wondering if my boobs will grow anymore or if im gonna have to wait till i have kids or the next stage of my life? im a size. 12A sometimes 10A and i feel like i have the body of a 14 year old. i was a late developer didnt get my p...
A. 16 June 2008: I don't know much about female growth spurts.
But for what it's worth breast size really doesn't matter that much to guys, not to guys who are looking for anything more than a hookup, and even then they'd have to be shallow.
I even have one fr... (read in full...)
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