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writes:Hello to everyone.I am about to have sex with my girlfriend and I am really concerned about the size of my penis.It's about 4-4,5 inches in length and about 4,5 inches in girth when erect. I am quite fat for my age (21), about 246 pounds (for BMI lovers, I'm 36 BMI so I am officially well over obese scale). Is it true that if I lose weight, my penis will reveal itself more?Will I be at least at the average side? Should I seek for medical help?Is there anything I can do?(Size-wise)I really fear of rejection...Thanks in advance and merry xmas to everyone.PS.Sorry for any mistakes,English is not my native lang.
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reader, factor_of_safety  +, writes (27 December 2008):
 actually, penis size importance changes from lady to lady. you should find the correct one for serious relationship. so just think about tackling your fatness problem . beacuse it does not changes from lady to lady:)
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reader, XxAnGelXxx  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 It's not what you've got, it's how you use it ;)
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reader, agtorange  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 It's is a bit on the smaller side that's true, but think of it this way,if a finger can do the trick, you've got plently to work with.
And as far as the weight loss revealing more of your penis, just try pushing back on the skin around your penis, if you've got some fat on your pelvis, getting rid of that will most likely reveal more of you.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 I'm a woman, and I can tell you that by the time I see a guy's penis, I will already be so emotionally attached to him that the size won't matter to me.I am sure you are a nice young man, but I can understand why you may feel insecure if you are overweight. Have you been to the doctor to get all your levels checked out? I think you should get it checked out and tell them that you want to lose weight. Find a gym or enroll in a sport that you enjoy. Do they have any good martial arts schools in your town?I sense that you may have trouble with self-esteem, and that may be the underlying issue, not penis size.I was fat and depressed and then I tried karate and found out I could kick butt, and it changed my life. I don't know why I lacked self-confidence before, but I lost weight and stopped feeling insecure.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (25 December 2008):
 All that I have read about this indicates that weight reduction would allow more penetration, because some of the excess weight usually pads the area just above the crotch. More importantly, in order to satisfy a woman, learn about oral sex techniques such as cunnilingus - and of course, I agree that being a sensitive and caring lover will help to satisfy many women. There is nothing more (short of surgery, possibly) that you can do to increase size. Do not throw your money away on useless pills. You are very near normal anyway, according to prevailing research about the subject.
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reader, Arianz  +, writes (25 December 2008):
 hey bro,
I think u should go to doctor. Take some advice about food and health control.
Size is not a big deal i think. if she loves u so much then its will not a problem for her.
but make sure that u can last long. Coz Fat persons become tired so fast.
So careful about ur body. NOT TO WORRY
take care
arianz
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (25 December 2008):
 Don't worry mate. Most women you be with won't really care about the size. Some do not many but at the end of the day it dosent. I've had this discussion with many men and women and I've found that a woman mainly enjoys the sensual pleasures you provide her on both a physical and emotional level.If you start losing weight yes you will star to grow more especially at a younger age. Exercise will also improve you sex drive and you will enjoy it more. Don't ever resort to oops you have a huge chance of desensitizing your self and your sex life could very well drop off.Don't worry mate just have fun and enjoy.
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