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writes: Okay i have a major prob, i don't quite see the prospect of dating anyone with the way am functioning. The prob is as follows : For eg. i like a guy..like him for max a month or something...then he starts to crush back..then wehave a good time, and then when he starts getting closer (not physically)but you know emotionally...i start getting bored of the guy and (i don't know why) but irritated. then i start avoiding the guy and move on to another.So i end up saying no to the guy i Liked and he ends up really really liking me.This sucks i mean i can Not get boy friend like this !!!! Help !!
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 I feel the same way sometimes, it's a matter of decisions whether you want to commit to make it work or not. The commitment vary on how well I get along my partner.
You can fall out of love, and back in it with the same person. It's a matter of just being there.
Some drop out of a relationship the second they don't feel love. I say wait a few just to see, it often comes back.
"Life is not about finding the perfect person but learning to love an imperfect person perfectly."
Have a nice day! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks you guys !! i think you just said it, av got to notice the good things and really stop myself from actually getting irritated !! am going to try this out now !!
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reader, cuteysar  +, writes (8 December 2008):
im exactly the same way.
just try to think about what you like about him, and remind yourself that youre only focusing on his irritating aspects because the chase is over. those things arent really irritating.
i find that as soon as i start finding the guy irritating, and then end it, after its over and he doesnt like me anymore i start to like him again. both you and me just have to learn to stop ruining things and give it a chance.
although having said that, i am yet to do this!
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reader, Anonny +, writes (7 December 2008):
Actually, I used to have the same problem! - I used to enjoy the chase - but as soon as the guy was interested I suddenly wasn't and I didn't want to become intimate or anything!
- Anyway, by the time I turned into my 20's I got off with a guy that I really liked and I had to just tell myself - DON'T GO OFF HIM - GIVE HIM A CHANCE!! and I did and it actually worked for a few years!
So - give it a go!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni Want a boy friend ! the problem is i just can't be steady.
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reader, agtorange  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Well if you don't like it when a guy developes feelings for you, why would you want a boyfriend?
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