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writes:I have been invited to a party by my ex boyfriends sister, i dont know if i should go or not, as my new boyfriend thinks it would be wrong for me to go, but my friend thinks that my new boyfriend is worried that i will get back with my ex, as we split over something stupid, and that he would use this party as a way to get back with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): I think if your bf says it will upset him for you to go, then you shouldn't. It's not like he's upset over nothing. Put yourself in his shoes. If he was invited over by his ex (with whom he broke up over something silly), would you be happy for him to go?
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reader, agtorange  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 If I was your boyfriend I'd be thinking the same thing, is it really worth upsetting your boyfriend that much? Unless it's going to be a really great party I wouldn't go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): You do know the answer to this one...why are u even asking us. If u felt it was the right thing to do u would have just gone but you are asking arround to get the go ahead and the justification. You know it will hurt your new boyfriend so go ahead and do yourself a favour - be true to yourself about how you feel about your new boyfriend and your ex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): Respect your boyfriends wishes! Send your friend a gift and appology but don't make waves! Unless getting back with your ex is a motive for you too, you shouldn't put yourself in that position. If you care for your new guy...skip the party!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): i think if you really want to go why not take you new boyfriend with you that way he will see you want to be with him not your ex
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