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writes:ok, so most people are so open about questions on here so im ganna try it out.me and my boyfriend have been dateing 13 months, and weve only had sex once.but lately he's been doing down on me alot.and i wanna like return the favor, and hes kinda told me he wanted me to at times too.but in my past relationships ive never done that to a guy.. so i dont wanna look like the stupid one trying to do it to him, and have no idea what im doing and making it all weird and uncomfortable and totally ruining the moment y'know?-im not that stupid, i mostly no what im doing,and when it comes to making him happy and pleasurable hes told me in doing good, but i wanna go further.-any guys wanna tell me what they like when there woman does it to them?-anything will help. Reply to this Question
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reader, smartazngirl +, writes (20 January 2009):
 Sorry that my advice didn't help. But please don't say "life is miserable" because your boyfriend cheated or dump you for whatever reason, because you made it miserable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanking, finally some advice that dont have to do with my age
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): i agree, too young…BUT that's besides the point…RULES FOR ORAL…no teeth, deep throating isn't everything, take your time, tease, lick first, don't suck it all in at the beginning, don't overwork the head of the penis, use your hands too…start out slow and end more quickly…try twisting your head as you go…beware of ejaculation! don't let him force your head down! try different positions
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay i just have to saywhat the fuck,why would you even give someone advice and say that they should be in love because we are young and hes going to cheat on me, lik really. thats not ganna make me feel any better.i havent dont it yet By the way.about being the same age, yes hes ONE year older then me and weve been togther for 14 months and hes never dont anything thats close to cheating on me, or hurting me in any way.so next time you wanna give advice you can try and not be so mean.love,? i never even said i loved him.yes i no im "to young"to be in lovebut no.i DO love him, and he loves me and everyone on here can say im TO YOUNG TO BE IN LOVE, yes yes ive hurted it before. alot. well really love is a feeling. its not a age thing.you can be in love with the same person for over 50 years, and that dont mean anything.it dont metter how OLD you are to be in Love, love is something you feel. but something you get as you get older.kaythanks hun.bye.
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reader, smartazngirl +, writes (26 December 2008):
That's good that you're both virgins, but you're still too young for this. You'll most likely regret doing this with somebody you're not deeply in love with. And yes, you are too young to be in love. Even I am too young to be in love. I'm only 14.
I'm assuming that your boyfriend is or almost the same age as you. When boys are teenagers, they make stupid choices. So he'll probably forget/cheat on you. Point is that your relationship with your current boyfriend won't work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut see, the thing
im not ganna get anything, because me and my boyfriend were BOTH VIRGINS, and again we had sex ONCE.
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reader, smartazngirl +, writes (17 December 2008):
Well, I agree with people who says you're too young, but they're watching out for you, you know? I mean, you don't want to catch HIV or STDs.... It'll be a miserable life if you do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah, i understand that and am sorry for like freakingout.
ive just been going threw alot with my grandpa dieing lastnight and everything.. but again, i dont even have sex, we did it once.
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reader, samson  +, writes (16 December 2008):
i dont think anyone here means to offend you by what they have said and i understand that you are entitled to having advice on any subject just like anyone else. BUT, its not the fact that people think u shouldnt be having sex and taking a moral high ground, i just think most normal people would find it a little bit weird and quite sick telling a 13-15 year old how to give oral sex. do u get me? no one here could care less what u get up 2, they just wouldnt want2 be a sex coach 2 a miner. theres a word for people like that.lol just ask ur bf, thats the best advice anyone could give you, whether you were an adult or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionugh, okay see the thing is im asking for ADVICE and this is what the website it for, im a straight A-B stupid and im at the top pf my class. im a JR, and im doing really good at school. so i dont need you People telling me to stop talking about sex, and focus on school. its My
choice on what i do with my life. so yeah.
please answer this if you have ADVICE, i already have a millon people telling me not to be having sex and shit well guess what ive had sex ONCE. and ive been dating the Same kid for 13months.
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reader, agtorange +, writes (15 December 2008):
 Ask him how he wants it when/if you do decide to do it.
So long as it's wet and you watch your teeth I can't see why it wouldn't be good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): You are to young to be doing this and you had a previous relationship so young, my advice wait until you are of legal age then come back to Cupid and I'm sure lots of men will be more than happy to share their experiances with you. Back to boring school now,but in years to come you will look back and enjoy each stage of life as it should off been for you instead of worrying about pleasuring boys.
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