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writes:My boyfriend and I have been having problems that have almost split us up twice. I have a higher sex drive than he does but I have never been pushy, asked for sex or demanded it or anything like that.I have backed off so much trying to make things better but he still always says he feels pressured. What should I do? I feel like I would need to stay at least two metres away from him at all times to make him feel less pressured.I go to do a lot but think no he wouldn't like that and hold back. It hurts, hurts so bad but I do it and for what... he still says he feels pressured. We only ever have sex when he wants to and unfairly it falls to him as to what we do and when it ends. I don't try anything on. I am lost as to what I should be doing.
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reader, agtorange  +, writes (22 January 2009):
 Sit down and talk it out with him, even if he doesn't feel perfectly fine being intimate as often as you'd like, he should be considerate enough to make you happy regardless.
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