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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I'd like to hint to her that I think she's hot. How do I bring up the idea of maybe going for a drink?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - So I am a closeted bi sexual girl, and am really attracted to this girl at work. I was speaking about this girl to a work colleague who told me she was gay, however I really don't know if she fancies me, or what to say to her to make it seem tha...

A family holiday where my feelings were perhaps forgotten? Shouldn't they at least consider how I would feel, considering the problems last year?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - I kind of feel bad for even thinking this, but I feel really let down by my family and when I told them how I feel, I feel like they are basically telling me it doesn't matter how I feel. Basically every year for the past 4 years we have had a fa...

Why is she contacting me again? What is she trying to achieve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - In my freshman year of college, I befriended a girl who I thought was a cool person. However, as we grew closer, I realized she was not a very cool person. She's a manipulative, selfish, immature, clingy/needy, bitch. She's told me some of the thin...

What am I doing wrong to annoy so many people? I keep having this problem where I lose fiends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - I keep having this problem where I lose friends because of breaking up with/losing interest/not being interested in the first place. I guess my problem is two-fold. I could be friends with a group of people (mixed genders), we get along fine, we...

How else could I have handled this situation? Am I wrong to be upset at his behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - I met my husband and child at a restaurant (took separate cars due to a reason) I parked my car then got out and looked around to see where they were. I waited for a while then called him asking where they were. He tells me they are inside t...

Despite my initial good feelings about him: should I just cut my losses and move on, or actually try to make him reconsider?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - Three weeks ago, I met a man on an online dating site. We have a very strong connection and started dating, even though we live an hour and a half from each other. For the first time I actually felt really comfortable around a man, and let down my ...

He just just sits there steaming. Why doesn't my husband of ten years accept that sometimes people do want to give me a compliment?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - I was wondering if anyone could help....my husband of 10 years hates when people compliment me. If we go anywhere and someone tells me I'm pretty he cringes. I always respond with a nice thank you. He just just sits there steaming. Why?? ...

Should I stay away from my ex-emotional affair partner, even if I think he needs help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - I have no contact for 4 months with the guy I had an "emotional affair" with. It's been close to a year now since it happened. I still hear about him because we have common friends. I tried to cut them off too for self-preservation but they've ...

Would I be better returning to my own place? Why are my parents subjecting me to this? Will it get better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - Six months ago, my parents offered me their apartment for 2 years until they decide to retire and move into it. The expectations are that I have to pay my bills and the rent is free. The reason why they offered me this is so that I can rent out my ...

Has my behaviour pushed her away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - To some of you, this may be familiar. This is a little follow-on from previous events if you remember the last question. This girl and I work together (let's call her M). We have/had a great friendship; we would often say how much we miss each oth...

How can we repair our relationship and overcome the distance issues? Why do I feel uncomfortable and confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four years. Things started off well then slipped since his work got in the way. He has a job where he works days and nights for 12 hours a time. This job started when we were living together; communication wa...

Am I being paranoid? Or does my 55 year old Girlfriend have too many traits and behaviors of a chronic cheater?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - I'm 44 male and left my wife for a 55 year old hot lady. I've been married since 18 and rarely cheated, whereas she's been married 3 times and has 4 kids from 3 different men. She's cheated on all of them, been promiscuous, often having sex same ...

I love her a lot. But Is it normal that my girlfriend will only have sex with her clothes on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - Is it normal that my girlfriend will only have sex with her clothes on? I love my girlfriend and love our intimate times but she doesn't want to get naked for sex, she only feels comfortable while clothed. She has always struggled with her weigh...

How can I get my 17 year old girlfriend to quit using drugs? How can I convince her that she shouldn't need multiple partners? People tell me to break up with her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - Hello DC! I'm in a bit of a pickle right now with my girlfriend... My current girlfriend and I (let's call her A) have been dating off and on for about three months. I wish I could be consistent, but I caught her cheating with several boys the...

Is fantasizing sexually about people (real or fictionous) a sin? If so, how do I overcome it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - I guess it started about twelve years ago. I was eleven and liked to read online stories about my favorite characters. They were written by people all across the world, fans who were just as fanatic as I was. It was an incredible way to live on ...

How can I tell him I have trouble trusting any guy? I can't help but get the feeling he is leading me on for a bet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3494 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - I like this guy and I can't help but get the feeling he is leading me on for a bet. I feel like it only because it has happend before. He tells me he's a virgin but yet I can't trust anyone. I want to tell him I like him. But he says I'm shy abo...

The smell of smokers is a turn-off for me. Was it wrong of me to reject her? What else could I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - I am a guy who doesn't seem to have problems attracting girls. I can't stand girls when they are drunk or smokers, also both because of the smell. The drunk ones are not an issue, as I tell them that when we meet, she should refrain from drinkin...

Despite the difficulties I still love her. But what to do? My daughter thinks that I should ask her to leave

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - My partner is causing me concern in that she does the complete opposite of what is asked of her, when we got together she was very quiet and then after a couple of weeks she started talking to me with rude words. I told her that I dont take this typ...

I would like to have a real future with him. He is married and he and I had a relationship earlier. Am I hoping for too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - I have had an affair with a guy for about three years and I ended it when I realised he was not going to leave his wife. We have been on friendly terms ever since. Now, 4 years later I am going trough a really,really rough time and he helps me ...

I am addicted to visiting prostitutes and it is taking over my life. How can I get over this addiction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - I got used to using prostitutes about some 3 yrs ago and I'm so addicted to it. sometimes I visit brothels 3 times a week. I just finished my higher education going back to school so I could get my degree but ever since I got addicted to it. I just...

Is it normal for me to feel turned off by my bfs porn use? The porn is always portrayed with younger women

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - Is it normal for me to feel turned off by my bfs porn use? Knowing that he is watching and getting off to younger women who nearly always look perfect seems to affect my sex drive with him and I can't seem to feel sexy . I am a healthy woman in...