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writes: My partner is causing me concern in that she does the complete opposite of what is asked of her, when we got together she was very quiet and then after a couple of weeks she started talking to me with rude words.I told her that I dont take this type of speech and said to her that I dont take any nonsence and after this everything seemed ok. But out of the blue she said that she cannot cope with me and sent a text saying that she needs time alone without me.After 5 weeks without hearing from her I was contacted saying that she was in hospital with a chest infection and as she has no family to look after her.I took her in and never in my life have I ever come across anything like what she does, she went out the other night with a friend from school and they stayed out all night and came back as I was leaving for work.It was difficult to get any information from them where they had been all night as they were both very drunk and her friend worried me saying that they both got a bit drunk and had sex with a couple of lads.Then her friend said that she was joking and as I had a couple of hours owed from work so went home early to find my partner outside my house with all her goods saying to me that she finds that I am so demanding and very annoying.I only managed to get her to come back in to the house only by saying to her that I would call the police if she stayed outside and ever since she wont talk to me just says that she does not want to be in my house with me in it at the same time.Before we met she was with a guy who did not tell her that he was married and only found out when they were about to start making love.I am 56 and she is 42 and not sure what is wrong as she tells people that she knows that I am her boyfriend but tells me that she does not want me any more and sex is out of the question. She says that she is tired so this does not happen.My daughter thinks that I should ask her to leave and go back to her own house but I know that she is not fit enough to look after herself on her own.I still love her but dont know what to do next.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 May 2015):
 By all means send her home. She is not your problem and she is making you crazy.
she does not want to be with you why would you even consider her your partner?
your daughter is right.. time to end the fake relationship.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 May 2015):
 You daughter is right, kick this lady out. She doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, but she DOES want to take advantage...
And if she is FIT enough to go out drinking all night.... SHE is fit enough to move out of your house.
STOP wasting your time on this one.
Wish er good luck and bye bye (then block and delete her number).
Find yourself a lady who want to BE with you, because she WANTS to be around you, not because she wants taken care of.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 May 2015):
 Your partner does not want ro be your partner.
What else can you do but letting her go ?
She is 42, it's HER call to decide if she is fit enough to be alone on her own.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 May 2015):
 Kick her out of the house. She's using you, and she will continue to use you for as long as you let her.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (4 May 2015):
 If she's fit enough to go out, get drunk and stay out until the wee hours then she's fit enough to take care of herself.
It's time for her to go.
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