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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How do I stand up to this? she won't ever do anything I want to do, but expects me to follow her plans

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

5 October 2014 (M) - Ok, so I really need help with my girlfriend. We're been together a long time, met at uni about 7 years ago. We live together and have recently moved into a new house. I've suddenly had a realisation that she's super selfish... I think... Esse...

Would like to find some genuine age-gap dating sites but don't want any scam sites. How do I attract women 10-15 years younger than myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

5 October 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 35 year old male who lives in the UK. I prefer younger women aged between 20 and 30 and would like some suggestions for genuine age gap dating sites. Before anyone asks: no, I am not looking for a notch on my bedpost or '...

Am I being too persnickety? Should I see this man again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - With a track record of attracting and dating emotionally unavailable men, I've been working on trying to be more open and emotionally available myself, and dating more men, basically accepting most dates from men who ask online. I've been on t...

He's a childhood friend. Yet due to his Gf's request he is now snubbing me. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - I know this might seem trivial, but this has been bugging me. A childhood friend of mine has just randomly started ignoring me. We were such good friends in high school, and although we fancied each other for years nothing actually happened beca...

How do I let go? He does not care, yet I want closure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - I have been broken up with my boyfriend of 9 months for about 3 months now. For the first 2 months, we went back and forth with whether we could fix our problems and get back together. For example, he got upset with me that I didn't tell a ma...

If I have a healthy libido then why does my husband need to masturbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - I have discovered that my husband has started masturbating and lying about it. I feel puzzled because I have a healthy libido and he knows it. Why would he do this? Is this a sign of trouble ahead? We have been married for two years. ...

Have I ruined things for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - What do I make of this? I've been with my partner for 5 years we had a son together. He had to move for work and things got rocky with the distance and he eventually told me he had met someone and had been seeing her for a few months without tell...

Married 7 years and cannot conceive. Have some to dread lovemaking. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - hi agony aunt, I've been married for 7 years and yet to conceive. I use to have a very high sexual libido but not any more. I now dread my husband's touch and talk of love making ,its affecting my marriage. what do i do?...

I thought he liked me! What happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - A co-worker and I really hit it off when we met. He kept calling me pretty and beautiful, he kept telling me the dates me wanted to take me on, he said I was an amazing girl and he couldn't get over how I could be single. He would call me and we ...

Should I wait, or should I have some one night stands?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - Hi, this is a slightly embarrassing question and I know there's no one correct answer. I just want some opinions/advice/comments from those who have been in a similar situation. I'm female, nineteen, in my second year of university, and ...

My Husband sent a text to another girl in the middle of the night ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - I have a very simple question. Should I be worried? I got off work today to find a fb message from a girl my husband used to be friends with. It had a picture of a iPhone convo and her message to me read "this is not the first time your husban...

He says I am not his girlfriend, but that he loves me, I am so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - Okay, so I met this guy back in June ( he was a friend of a very good friend of mine) and we seemed to really hit it off. Well we got caught up in the moment and we had THE BEST SEX. And afterwards we chilled and talked til early in the morning. He ...

He's 17 and he said he would wait, if I did, or we could sneak it? What should we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - Well, I'm 13 and My best friend has a brother named Jack. Jack is turning 17, and i started seeing him more often and began to realize i had strong feelings for him. I told him I liked him. That night i slept in his room with him we didn't have s...

He's 5 years younger. Do I make the first move? Because I can't tell if he likes me too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - I have a crush on a guy I work with. We work together only once or twice a week. He's quiet. He rarely talks to anyone. We didn't even introduce ourselves the first day we met. The next 2 times we met at work, he winked at me to say hi. I talked...