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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

He's controlling and abusive. What's the best way to handle this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Been with my partner almost five years, we have a four year old son together. For the last two years our relationship has been very rocky. It has been an unhappy relationship for me, since being with him he has stopped me seeing family and frien...

How did we go from an initial attraction to FWB and then to now, where he's making little effort to keep the relationship going?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - So, there's a guy (isn't there always) who I met at the end of my long term relationship. He's separated and in the middle of a nasty court battle re kids. He and I initially bonded over our dislike of our exes (great baseline, I know) and have dis...

How do I rise above the bullying and develop confidence in me and deflect bullying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3661 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I feel unsupported in life. I experienced poor treatment from my dad from the beginning of my time and my mom has never really praised me that much; I felt that both my mom and my dad saw the worst in me, unknowingly. They didn't se...

My Gf is seeing her ex, but has not told me. What is the best way of dealing with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Hi, My girlfriend is still best friends with her ex boyfriend, which I aren't really okay by, but I know that if I confront her about it then she will just say don't make me choose, so therefore that means that she will chose him over me. I woul...

Am I overthinking this? My friend wants me to accomodate her friends at my home. I don't know them and feel uncomfortable about her request.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Friends question. I got a bit bewildered to day by friend's request. She is my very good friend, I know her for 15 years. They have this friends a couple from a different city who comes on vacation to our part for New Year's Eve and stay for ...

Do I tell him that I have a crush on him and that I love him? I don't want to ruin our friendship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - I dont know what to do anymore. I am head over heels in love with my best friend and we have known each other since we were 6 years old. I now live in a different country from him and we dont see each other a lot. We might see each other at christm...

This man hardly knows me, so why does he keep on asking me out? I feel conflicted due to our mutual friend's illness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Why does this man keep asking me out? This man is friends with a man that I like. The man I like has been seriously ill lately (he had an operation recently and was in hospital for a few weeks). This man has asked me to go out with him a few time...

Still mourning my ex who passed away due to suicide. How can I move on? And what to do about the crush I have on my tenant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Lost my boyfriend a year ago through suicide. People are telling i should move on cause we were not married. In my heart i still miss him a lot. Recently ive discovered that im having a crush on my tenant, which is when my late boyfriend died i...

Why does she resort to passive aggressive and avoidance behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

27 October 2014 (M) - Why does my girlfriend often resort to this type of behavior? She is an adult but I sometimes feel like she is stuck in the past. She'll try to lure me into making plans by giving me a yes or no option, but when the answer doesn't go along with he...

I worry this ex-girlfriend will try to hook up with my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3681 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is having a small house party with his three close friends (one is his male best friend, one is his super hot ex girlfriend and the other is a family friend he's known all his life and who has a boyfriend, I was invited too but my ...

My fiancè cheated on me with his ex! I am so angry at this woman, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need to know what to do in my situation that I know im not the only one that is dealing. Ive been with a man for just over 2 years now. We are engaged. The problem is this: He has twin boys with his ex. Now I understand that ...

Met on holidays. Is it too early in our friendship to get him a birthday present?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3682 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - I met this guy on holiday, he's in the army and is posted in Germany. But comes from the same place as I do. Just after I met him he was being deployed to Afghanistan for 3 months, we spoke everyday and he'd ring me sometimes too. After his ...

Met online. He's separated but still married. Did he break up due to me questioning him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - I really need your advice here- I'm female (27) been dating this amazing man (35) who's separated but still married that I met online, -we went on four amazing dates (2 dinners, drinks and an art exhibition). We instantly clicked and we had amazing ...

Trying to process my 60 year old mother's cavallier attitude to taking a married lover. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - I'm having some issues with my mother right now. She called me tonight to get my opinion on if I would be okay with her sleeping with a man a few years older than me. I told her I didn't care about the age factor. Then I commented that a...

Can a married man fall in long with his mistress? Or is the lover just used for sex on the side?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Do married men only use their lover on the side just for sex only? Can they actually fall in love with their mistress, despite being torn because of the children? ...

Can you help calculate the maths to perhaps arrive at which guy is the likely father?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - This is kind of embarrassing but i just want an opinion im fairly sure i know the answer would like some opinions though. I am 6 mths pregnant. at the time of falling pregnant i slept with 2 guys. im fairly sure i know who the dad is but was w...

How do I get over these lingering feelings for J without losing him as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3675 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - It might be long, so please bear with me. I'll start off with some basics. I am currently 20 and my boyfriend is 21 years old (we'll call him K). We've been together for almost 3 and a half years, since my junior year in high school, and his...