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writes:Hi guys, thanks for taking the time to answer this question.I met this girl in university that I have feelings for, we met only a month ago and we text very mild. I know this is a "bad" indication but when we see each other, we have lots to talk about, she asks a lot of questions about me ( we hardly about academic related topics ) and we both enjoy our conversations. We have classes together everyday and she sits beside me every class.The second time I saw her, i just sat beside her and we talked, she seemed really happy as she smiled and said some cute stuff.A few days ago, I saw her for the first time after the Christmas break, I saw her but didn't say hi until the very last moment.I saw she noticed me and she also didn't say hi until the last moment ( before class started ). She didn't seem as happy. I know I could be over thinking and a little delusional but those details might help haha.She has a lot of male friends she hangs out with, she's nothing like a tom boy, shes really really cute. Which is probably the reason why she has many male friends...I will see her again tomorrow in class and I want to ask her out this Saturday, I want to make a clear distinction that I'm not just another guy that wants to be her friend. What should I say and where should we go? There's actually a few good movies around right now. But then again, Movies are a bad first date right?I realize the potential nasty side effects from this act but for the first time, I really want to be this girl's boyfriend.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (11 January 2013):
 Movies are not great for a first date because you dont get to talk, however if you went for dinner first and then to see a movie that would be much better? Alternatively you could just for dinner if you cant stretch to paying for both dinner and a movie, if you are old enough you could go out for a drink to a nice bar, or you could do a daytime date and take her out for a picnic (weather permitting obviously!), go ice skating etc.
In terms of what to say - there isnt anything in particular, perhaps try asking what she is doing this weekend and say "would you like to go and do xxxx on Saturday/Sunday?" You dont have to be too gushy or soppy, there is no need to compliment her to death when you ask her out - just keep it casual so there isnt too much pressure on her, and then keep the compliments for when you are out on the date.
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