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Boyfriend versus my ex. Why should I choose?

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Question - (11 January 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2013)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been dating my Boyfriend for 5 months and recently I was texting to my ex-boyfriend,who I had dated longer than anyone, and my boyfriend at the same time.

In the middle of texting I started to feel like my boyfriend was just a friend and that my ex was my boyfriend. I turn off my phone and laid down afterwards.

Is it normal to feel for an ex?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2013):

Modnote: sorry you didn't like title. your suggested title was ''boyfriend v ex?''

i wrote this question, i have no clue why the title says "Why should I choose?" i didnt put that, i want to stay with my current boyfriend, all i wanted 2 know is if it was normal to have feelings for my ex

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (11 January 2013):

EbonyBlossom agony auntI wouldn't change anything just yet, these thoughts or feelings can come and go pretty quickly sometimes. If it persists for several weeks I would break up and be single for a while, as this might help to make things clearer in your head.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (11 January 2013):

He's your ex for a reason. If your boyfriend is a good guy who takes care of you and makes you happy why trade that for someone who you've already found out isn't right for you?

However its totally normal. It's easy to remember the good things about a long term relationship and conveniently forget the bad things.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2013):

Sounds like you have unresolved feelings for the ex.

You are best judge in your situation . Who do you really love? And if it's the ex is it worth pursuing?

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