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Archived questions from: 21 September, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How did he get Chlamydia?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner for over 2 years, we have had a few tough weeks. he has been depressed as he has lost his job and feels a failure, which of course I tell him he is not. He has been a bit agitated for a few weeks,today he rang me and told ...

I am setting myself up for another disaster.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Part-Two.... I wanted to thank everyone for what i knew would be said but was trying to ignore the truth. I went home yesterday after posting my 1st question and had a long talk with this man. Despite his obsessive lies and denial this man can and...

He contacted me. Now he's ignoring me. Is he having second thoughts because he's married? Or jealous that another guy is interested in me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - An old high school flame contacted me on facebook after 10 years. We were in love and we had to break up due to his move to another high school. He met a woman nothing but a year after we broke up and he is married to her now with a child. I am...

She says she loves me. But what should I do about this relationship? She puts me down, insults me and belittles me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - hey ..i am a 21 yr old guy madly in love with a 23 yr old girl...she might be older but is totally like a kid. she loves me tooo. its been 1 yr to our realtion and eversince we fell in love things started changing. she became very very nagging ...

I feel guilt about saying NO to my Mom. She is draining me financially. How do I stop her doing this to me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Over the past two months my mother has drained me financially and borrowed over $800 from me to pay for bills. I have an issue with it because she's acting as though it's her money, or money that I owe her, while never even saying as much as a thank ...

She has a boyfriend. Should I say nothing? Or try to confess to her my feelings and get rejected and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - Hello, I'm 18 years old currently in college freshman year and I have feelings for my younger cousin she's 15 and currently in freshman year of high school. Here's the thing first I was only physically attracted to her. I mean I didn't think about ...

I'm insecure about my looks, Does he lie to me to make me feel better, because I don't look like a porn star?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I know, I know, another porn question. I need advice especially from females who "get it". I guess I have quite a degree of insecurity. The thing is, I know my boyfriend loves me. I know he lies to make me feel better, because he swears and insists ...

Re-united how can I be certain he will be faithful this time? I am determined to be faithful.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I met my ex 6 years ago. We dated for 2 years. It was a pretty bad relationship since there was no trust nor respect and we were very immature (early 20's). I slept with his best friend before even knowing my ex. I also slept with someone he knows ...

The ex is getting in the way. How do I build more trust between us to keep us rock solid ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I have known each other for eight years. We were always great friends, even tried dating in the beginning of the relationship. At first, it never worked out. So we remain close friends, but we were always attracted to each other. ...

Should I move on? am I being played? He's re-opened his dating profile. What could possibly be going on in his head?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so upset and confused. I really appreciate any and all advice that you guys offer me. This might be a bit long, but I will really appreciate it if you stick in there and help me out. Thanks ahead of time. I've been dating my b...

My 6 months old baby from another relationship is upsetting my new partner. How can I make this better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - So, I know this duels as a parenting question, but since the point of interest is my relationship I figure I should ask it here. Some Background: I am married and have a child from a previous relationship. I'll spare you the gruesome details, and ...

Should I stay with my boyfriend or go after the other guy who has a 6 month old baby and a babymama?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now, our relationship is pretty good, I love him very much. The thing is about a year ago I hooked up with some guy I used to work with, we decided to stays friends but with time we grew apart. ...

What can I learn from this? And can I get over it? I am a major reason for her changing and for the breakup.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - So.. I have been with this girl for a bit over two years now. one and a half of it being long distance. We broke up recently, basically we were breaking and making up for the last 3 months of the relationship. This was the final one basicall...

Three weeks into the relationship. What present would not "spook" seeing as it's early days?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - Hi All, A quick question something I haven't come across before early on in the dating process. I have been dating a girl for 3 weeks, we met online and chatted on the phone etc for about a month before this. We have since had 4 /5 dates. It's her ...

I can't figure him out. Is he a real GIGOLO as he says, what's up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I have a male friend with whom first were co-workers now just friends. I was his confidant when his Girlfriend dumped him 6 months ago, so I know he's still very hurt. He's been a BIG flirt with the ladies so he's always telling me he's having some ...

My husband had a 2 hr long, intimate conversation with a girl and I cannot believe this is happening to me. What do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - First of all, I would like to thank everybody that takes the time to answer my question. I would just like to know what people consider cheating in a marriage, or if anyone has been in the same situation. I am 24yrs old, married for t...

Are you happy, or is it an illusion? (Anyone recently broken up or cheated on, READ THIS)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4813 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - Do what makes you happy. Note, this applies to EVERYONE. We’ve all heard it said. But when do we know whether what we are doing is making us happy, or just creating an illusion that we are? There’s a classic scenario in the datin...