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writes:hey ..i am a 21 yr old guy madly in love with a 23 yr old girl...she might be older but is totally like a kid. she loves me tooo.its been 1 yr to our realtion and eversince we fell in love things started changing.she became very very nagging and always insulting me just because she thinks i am not good looking and can look better.she gets cozy with her friends in front of me and when ask her to reduce it a bit she gets angry on me and does more.i listen to her all the all the time.she compares me to all her guy friends and always puts me down in front of them.after doing everything for her she still considers her friends above me. but she loves me too. she always says that she is fed up of me for small reasons and wants to break up. but she does not.plss tell me what to do??
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (21 September 2011):
She is not girlfriend material, it seems like she needs to grow up and learn a lot before having a proper relationship.
Dump her. If you don't, it says a lot about you. For example, why you are allowing yourself to be treated so badly by someone.. you say it's because of love - it's not.
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (21 September 2011):
 Bin her off, is the short answer. She is emotionally abusive to you and this relationship is simply not good for you. You may well love her, and I appreciate that, but she is treating you in a totally unacceptable way. Obviously, she has big issues of her own that she needs to deal with but from what you say here she is not going to confront them while being with you or for you.
I think you need to get out of this relationship ASAP. Staying in it is good for neither of you, it lets her get away with thinking there is not a problem with how she behaves, when their is, and obviously, for you it must be horrid. Good luck.
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