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My sister broke up with her boyfriend for a new guy and now I don't want to talk to her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1307 days ago

28 May 2021 (F - My sister 33 left her bf of 6 years in December. She didn't tell me they were having problems until after the breakup. Then she suddenly met someone else and was saying how happy she is. Her ex did so much for her so I stopped talking to her after ...

My father hired a private investigator and is convinced I'm gay and having an affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1309 days ago

27 May 2021 (M - My wife told me she'd received an angry phone call from my dad at 8am yesterday accusing me of cheating and having a gay relationship, and she doesn't believe a word of it. Apparently dad had hired a private investigator to follow me because he'd ...

We broke up but are back in touch but now I feel there is distance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1308 days ago

26 May 2021 (M - I broke up with my gf of 5 years over argument. Since that we both realised we are still in love. However we have both been busy in our routines. We still text daily with morning and good night however I feel like there’s now distance between us. ...

I am very angry at my boyfriend for staring at some random woman's ass!! I am having a hard time getting over this

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1309 days ago

25 May 2021 (F - I am so ANGRY right now! My boyfriend and I have issues with trust. We went for our first couple's counselling appointment today. While in the waiting room, this blonde woman came out to get a drink of water at the cooler. I think she was one of the ...

Does aomeone have any suggestions as to how to help my sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1308 days ago

25 May 2021 (F - Does aomeone have any suggestions as to how to help my sister? I would appreciate it. My sister is in the process of divorce from her husband because she found out he sheeted on her for about 10 years with many differentt women They been ...

I think my boyfriend is addicted to sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1311 days ago

25 May 2021 (F - So thanks so much for all the help with this problem in advance. I have been in a long term relationship of 8 years , like every couple we have our quarrels but we see them through and remain committed to our relationship. However I am starting...

My boyfriend is very clingy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1307 days ago

24 May 2021 (F - My new bf is really clingy. I'm 33 and he's 29 and I adore him but he is always needing to be touching me somehow, or hugging or kissing and k find it really overwhelming. I tell him and he gets upset or offended as if I don't like him when I say ...

My sweet boyfriend has turned into a really unpleasant man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1313 days ago

23 May 2021 (F - Hello thanks for your comments and advice in advance! So me and my bf have been together 3 years. At the beginning he was so sweet, caring, loving and thoughtful. This last year has been like a nightmare. Thankfully I didn't accept his propo...

How do we keep our LDR going? I think he's losing interest

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1315 days ago

21 May 2021 (F - My fiance and I are in a LDR for the next many months. He treats me well and everything is going fine. But I'm worried about our relationship deteriorating because of some things. 1. Although he's committed, he gets bored easily 2. His sexuality is ...

My son received inappropriate photos from a classmate. How to proceed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1314 days ago

20 May 2021 (M - My son, John, who's 16, told me yesterday he received two inappropriate photos from a classmate. Here in Canada, schools in our area are doing remote learning. We don't know when in-person classes will resume. My son showed me a WhatsApp he...

My wife is afraid to go out after being threated. How do I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1315 days ago

20 May 2021 (M - I've been married to my wife Elena (not real name) for 13 years, and in the past few weeks, she's been frightened to go out. Apparently, two men who claimed to be Proud Boys / Trump supporters threatened her as they'd seen her ID badge (of a beau...

Wife has a day planned with her friends that I want no part of

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1317 days ago

19 May 2021 (M - My wife is planning a big family day out in the next few weeks with all of her friends and our/their kids but I really don’t want to go. I can tell she’ll give me grief if I tell her though because it’ll be our first proper day out since the end of ...

Is my girlfriend right? Am I a jerk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1315 days ago

16 May 2021 (M - I have had an on and off relationship with my girlfriend for the past 3 years almost. We have been living together for 2 years and she does a lot around the house and is helpful. The problem is that she can be very moody and quick to anger over sma...

Advice on how to deal with people with different communication style.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1319 days ago

15 May 2021 (M - Dear Cupid, I've struggled for a long time with people who have a different communication style. Just to help you understand my own communication style, I often respond to messages, and try and do it quickly so as not to inconvenience others, I feel ...

Why Is This Couple Rude To Me Every Time I See Them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1320 days ago

14 May 2021 (F - I live in a small town where everyone bumps into each other often. Twice recently, a random miserable couple I do not know has been extremely rude about me loudly for no reason as I have been minding my own business! About a month ago, I was walki...

He's broken up with me 5 times in 2 years. Should I continue to see him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1323 days ago

13 May 2021 (F - Hi I need some advice about a relationship I am a widow, my husband died 8 years ago and two years ago I met a lovely man and fell in love. But he has finished our relationship 5 times so far and caused me a lot of heartache. The last time it ...

Three years have went by without speaking to our mother. Do we try to reconnect? Or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1323 days ago

12 May 2021 (F - Three years ago my sister and I had a talk with our mum that has left us not speaking to her since then. She is with a partner who is emotional abusive and I suspect has the capacity to be physically abusive too. There has been instances throug...

My boyfriend's career hasn't taken off and I don't want to feel like he's taking it out on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1323 days ago

11 May 2021 (F - hi everyone, hope you're all well! I'm having some trouble in my relationship with my boyfriend and would really appreciate some advice.. I met my bf in a house share and we got on really well. It's been a couple of years now and we've fi...

Anyone living with their partner in an anxious-avoidant type relationship, did living together help to improve the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1325 days ago

10 May 2021 (M - I am firmly in an anxious-avoidant type relationship (as the anxious one). It is often very difficult for me but I guess we have decided to stay together anyways. We are both aware of this dynamic between us, and it seems like we gradually get ...

I don’t want to leave my husband for this guy but it shows me what I’m missing in my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1325 days ago

8 May 2021 (F - Hello, I am looking for a bit of advice really. To be honest I’m not even sure what I expect from this. I’m currently in my late twenties and have been married to my husband for basically all of my 20s. When we got together he was fun and outgoing ...

I loved being the mistress but now that he's told his wife about me, I'm not sure I want him because I don't see him as a life partner

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1328 days ago

7 May 2021 (F - Hi, I am really struggling. It is a heart vs mind battle. My heart loves my boyfriend. My mind is telling me he isn't right for me. We had an affair and now he is saying he loves me and sees a future with me. He has told his wife about our relati...

Blatant favoritism in my boyfriend's family and I'm fed up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1328 days ago

5 May 2021 (F - Hey there, Thanks in advance for your responses. My boyfriend rents a space on a close family member's property. Due to some unfortunate events, the second space on the property is opening up soon for rent. It's nice, much better maintaine...

I worry about my b/f cheating but what if I am wrong and throw everything away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1330 days ago

3 May 2021 (F - My long distance bf is really sweet. He tells me he loves me, talks almost all the time when not at work or sleeping. He's doting and talks about the future. When we will see each other again. But I feel very insecure after getting out of a long ...

My daughter wants to go to college where all her friends are going. I'm worried she's not going there for the right reasons

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1333 days ago

1 May 2021 (F - Hello, I’m a single mother of an 18 year old. I’ve been raising her and my younger son (her biological brother) for the past 12 years. My daughter will be starting College next year. She was accepted into several Universities, one of which is her ...

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