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Archived questions from: February, 2021 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is my guy seeing someone else??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1352 days ago

28 February 2021 (F) - I've been with my guy for some years now but I sometimes get the feeling he has started loosing interest in me. Whenever I ask him he always deny it. He's the first guy I've slept with and I really love him so much. He came to spend some time ...

My boyfriend left me during lockdown for his fling in a tropical paradise. Now he said he made a mistake

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1350 days ago

27 February 2021 (F) - My long time boyfriend left me to have a fling with a woman he met last November while visiting his parents who live in another country. It is a developing country and she is a poor native who speaks English but not very well. I saw their exchanges ...

I have let people walk all over me my entire life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1351 days ago

25 February 2021 (F) - Hi...sorry for this long post but I really need some advice. I have been feeling a great void in my heart. I find I let people walk all over me. And maybe it's because how I was grown. My parents tried to control every aspect of my life, be it my ...

I feel drained by partner with ADHD and abusive parents

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1354 days ago

25 February 2021 (F) - I feel very stuck in a strange situation. I have tried over and again to get out of it, but never managed it. I really apologise for the long post. I've spent 26 years on and off in a very strange relationship with this person who I now know h...

I think my partner is controlling. Is he?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1356 days ago

24 February 2021 (F) - Morning folks I would like your opinion on my relationship. I live with my partner who is ten years younger than me. we live on boat and I know space is limited, I am quite a religious person all I am allowed is one small crucifix he says he ...

I unknowingly got involved with a married cop now she doesn't want to end things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1356 days ago

22 February 2021 (F) - Despite the country, English is my first language. I've been dating this woman, Katrina (not her real name), 41, for the past 18 months and we met at a singles' night. I only found out recently that she's married and has a husband and 13...

I feel like I was just a rebound till she decided if she still wanted her bf

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1358 days ago

22 February 2021 (M) - Hey there. So I met this girl at a New Years Eve party. We hit it off and started texting all day every day and some calls here and there. The thing is she had a boyfriend of a year whenever we met. A week after our initial meeting she broke it ...

My brother doesn't consider my daughter's feelings. How do I handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1356 days ago

22 February 2021 (F) - Hello all this is about my brother. So me and my brother are not close my live nearby . He is extremely rude but better nowadays. Very very selfish self centred person but I just wan to be nice and get along. We both have daughters . Mine is 2 and ...

I don't want to not stand by a man cos of how much he earns.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1359 days ago

21 February 2021 (F) - Hi Aunts, Both my partner and i have been speaking a lot about marriage and having kids. I'm ready for both but he is not. He is still living at home with his parents and brother. They have a 3 bedroom house. He has asked me who I would feel about...

Would you block someone for being strange even if you knew them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1361 days ago

18 February 2021 (F) - Years ago now I had communication with a guy who asked basically to have sex and/or hang out. We stopped talking and i forgot why until finding the old messages more recently but i messaged him a while ago and he ended up blocking me on facebook ...

Co-workers conspiracy theories on zoom chats are driving me crazy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1363 days ago

17 February 2021 (F) - I've had to work from home and do Zoom meetings. However, there's a problem with our Zoom meeting... one employee is constantly behaving pompously and disrupting meetings with conspiracy theories, but he hasn't been fired yet. He's caused ups...

There were many fights over the years. I'm wondering if we are supposed to be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1365 days ago

14 February 2021 (F) - We have been together for 8.5 years. Engaged for 1.5. We were young when we got together. The first few years of our relationship were constant arguments through my own insecurities and, honestly, I think I enjoyed the drama of it. My mental health ...

My boyfriend thinks that flirting with and kissing other women isn't cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1352 days ago

14 February 2021 (F) - My boyfriend believes that him flirting with and kissing other women is not cheating. I’ve tried talking to him but he gets reactive and angry. I feel it is cheating so I refrain from engaging with other men, but his perspective has me in knots. I’m ...

A troubled relationship and I don't know what to do anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1365 days ago

13 February 2021 (F) - All I do is cry. I feel stuck in a relationship. I've tried to give it my all. I'm settled in my career and he isn't. So he doesnt want to get married yet despite knowing that's on top of my agenda. I told him recently that I'm emotionally ...

I don't know if we should get married when all we do is fight

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1364 days ago

11 February 2021 (F) - So I've been with my fiance for 6 years - engaged for 3. The last two years things have been going downhill. Our sex life became abysmal. Lots of arguing. We haven't slept together in three months and we argue all the time. He was putting me down a ...

How do I keep my distance from my brother without interfering in our kid's friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1369 days ago

11 February 2021 (M) - My brother and I stopped talking to each other about fifteen years ago. We never got along when we were kids and we have nothing in common. Growing up, when we did try to do things together, we just ended up getting into a fight. So after our last ...

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't know how to be in a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1366 days ago

10 February 2021 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. This is his first real relationship and we live together. We are passed the honeymoon phase. He used to text me all the time, now I hear from him 2-3 times during the work day. He is really into ...

I want to date and yet just don't feel interested

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1369 days ago

9 February 2021 (F) - So, I have been single for 7 months now and I have thought it’s about time I put myself back there and I decided to go on Tinder... However, I feel as if I’m going through a weird stage “trying to date again”.. without sounding rude (I’m not a ...

Should I keep her in my life as a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1134 days ago

5 February 2021 (M) - Around 7 months ago I began sending texts to a girl I had matched with on Tinder. We hit it off really well, and ended up texting each other multiple times a day and video chatting at least once a week. We made plans to see each other in person once ...

I feel like I can't breath when boyfriend sleeps with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1373 days ago

5 February 2021 (F) - This is the first time in my life that I feel like this. When I met this guy everything was great. Sex amazing, he is funny, handsome, etc. Now 3 months Into this. When we sleep together I wake by a feeling that I cant breath. Its rea,ly a ter...

Dating a good guy but I have trust issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1376 days ago

5 February 2021 (F) - I have really bad trust issues and don't know how to get over them. I met my partner just over two years ago he's in his 40s,supportive, caring, works hard, there is a 18 years age gap between us am younger so tbh great at helping sort problems...

My online girlfriend always wanted to fight with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1348 days ago

4 February 2021 (M) - Hi This may be a long one, but I will try to keep it simple. Basically I met a girl (online because of the pandemic) and we have been chatting, everything was going fine at first until recently when she wants to fight with me every 2-3 days. ...

Where do I draw the line between anything anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1372 days ago

3 February 2021 (M) - I am not sure where to begin. I don't know where everything began or how to draw the line anymore. Upbringing was messy: Dad was a heavy drinker and got violent when set off. Once set off it resulted in hospital jail or both. His drinking was 1-2 ...

Advice for how to work on a sinking relationship needed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1377 days ago

2 February 2021 (F) - Myself and my partner haven’t had much of a relationship for about 14-16 months. Sadly, since my son was born we seem to have neglected our relationship but he is showing no signs of wanting to try. I try to talk to him about how I’m feeling but ...