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writes:Years ago now I had communication with a guy who asked basically to have sex and/or hang out. We stopped talking and i forgot why until finding the old messages more recently but i messaged him a while ago and he ended up blocking me on facebook messenger. I probably sounded really crazy to him cause i was diagnosed with schizophrenia and had went on a message rampage right before to random people saying i guess things that made sense but none at all. If someone came off as crazy but you talked to them before and were interested and they just seemed weird before would you block them and may i ask why? And why not your whole profile? Unless he thought it did.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (20 February 2021):
 I agree. I think the reason he blocked you is because you were a casual fling he had years ago, and has long since moved on with his life. As suggested, he might have a family of his own now, in which case it would be totally inappropriate to renew his association with you.
Even if he's single, he's moved on.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (18 February 2021):
 So years have gone by and you have not thought about this guy in all this time. Then you pick up your phone, and find correspondence all these years later that you then find the reasons why you stopped talking, which you had forgotten about until this day.
The content of the messages from all the time ago is now inconsequential, and i would guess this isen't the reason he blocked you. Neither did he block you because you came off as crazy, even if he did like you before.
I would say the reason he blocked you is because someone that he had a brief encounter with, i'm guessing many years ago, a person that he had forgotten all about has just messaged him out of the blue.
You don't know his situation now, he could very well have a long term girlfriend, be engaged, married, have kids, who knows, but i would say this is the reason he blocked you.
Its years later, maybe time to do what he has done and move on with your life.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 February 2021):
 I don't do social media, so I can only make guesses to what I "might" do.
If someone came off with some really strange messages, yes I probably would block them. Why? Because I don't need that kind of drama in my life.
If they were a CLOSE friend whom I spend time with IN person, I might call them or ask what is going on.
I'm not sure what he actually did? He partially blocked you? Or just your ability to message him?
Does it matter? The guy blocked you, while he might have been interested in sex, he wasn't so into you that he wanted to deal with whatever drama you threw his way.
And lastly? Why care? He isn't a guy you know that well or who has good intentions for you. He just wanted to dip his wick..
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