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Archived questions from: October, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I tighten up my vaginal muscles?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - I did sex before two months . Now I am in a another relationship. And we will get married in 6 months . But I don't want to feel embarrassed when we're having sex. So I want to tighten my vagina when I sex with him . P...

Is there any way to show people that first impressions of a person were wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

31 October 2015 (M) - I recently started dating this girl, she's 20 and has a 4year old son. I ended up making a horrible first and second impression on her parents and I despartely need to redeem myself. Three weeks ago her parents were away when I got a call while I ...

What can I do? I just can't handle watching her love someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - my ex-best friend / ex-lover and i had a very complicated 7 year bisexual relationship. I was her shameful secret and i always felt rejected, used and humiliated. she treated me bad and always flaunted different relationships she had with others ...

I don't want to be her second best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

30 October 2015 (F) - Hello, I have a problem and I really need some help. Basically I have this friend and she she's my best friend and were so close, like we see eachother whenever we can. We cuddle and kiss eachothers cheeks and stuff were so close. But the problem in ...

I love my husband to be but I know my parents are ashamed of him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

30 October 2015 (F) - Im getting marry with my fiance next year. We had been together for 6 years. Hes caring and people can tell he loves me deeply from how he treated me. His family loves me and always include me in every event and gatherings they had. They also e...

How do I ask my lesbian friend to date me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

30 October 2015 (M) - I am a junior in high school, and I have a friend that I really, REALLY like. There's just one problem: she's lesbian. Well, from what she says, she's more bisexual, just on the women's side. I do a lot for her, just because she's my friend. I rec...

I thought we were cool but he's went MIA, what went wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

30 October 2015 (F) - Me and this guy have been going to the same uni for the past three years and have mutual friends. So mutual that he hangs out with a guy I was heavily involved with. We hit it off recently. We spoke everyday non stop for a good month and a half...

Is he cheating? He changed passwords without telling me and has been gone long hours!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - My husband works as a sales rep, he went out yesterday 6am got back in 920pm at night. He rang at 5 pm to ask what me and our son wanted for tea and said he wouldn't be home until 830pm. He thought i would be ok with him when he got home ...

No matter what I do, the face of this other guy keeps on intruding into my thoughts. How can I stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - I choose to figure out what went wrong with my marriage that had led me to have an emotional affair with this guy, other than the fact that my husband and I are incompatible. I'd like to believe that I had actually loved him and that I still ca...

How do I cope with their arguing and nasty comments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - I have just had a massive argument with my ex and his wife and I don't know what to do. I split up with him nearly 5 years ago and we have two children together. We share custody and after they have been to see him I pick them up from a child min...

I want to play the player and give him a dose of his own medicine!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hello, people! I've got this common yet plaguing issue. I am currently in a long-term relationship with a guy with not-so-good past (well, I too have a horrible past). Some 2 months back, our relationship hit a low phase and for the first time eve...

He wants our son to meet his new girlfriend. But he's imposing restrictions on our son's contact with my boyfriend. How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, ive got a question what would you do in this situation. I was with my ex for five years, we had a child together. We got back together but in this time I didn't realise he had met someone else. He had moved away and would...

I feel like my Bf is pulling away. He rarely instigates sex now. Am I being needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is pulling away. We've been together just over three years. Had our ups and downs. Just the past few weeks he doesn't really respond to texts and home calls. I mean we live together but he works until after 9 pm then ...

Why now? Was it an excuse? Will we resume? He has said we need to take a break to focus on our children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - I am in love with a man, who loves me. I have 3 kids and didn't want him to get involved too closely with them so I made sure we started slowly. He has 2 children as well but from different partners (A little niggle). My question is he has sai...

Does this sound like a marriage of convenience?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Well, let's see if I can get good advice ^_^ I've known a man, he's English and living in the UK while I'm in the states, for about a year now...this September I went over and stayed with him for a month, came back to the states, and over Skype he ...

Why does my married lover remain with his wife if they've stopped sexual relations with each other?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Been with my married lover for a few years now and the other night I asked him if he was sleeping with his wife? He didn't like me asking because I have kept mentioning it, anyway he said he didn't and if he was to cuddle his wife she would be ...

Two years into a LDR and now I've cheated. What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi there this is the first time I doing this. I'm in a difficult situation right now, and I really don't know what to do. I've been in a long distant relationship for almost 2 years and I feel like things are starting to become dull between me and ...

My mom is toxic! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - This is a difficult problem and any help would be greatly appreciated. My mum has always been an attention seeking, malevolent narcissist. She likes to play the victim and does so at the expense of everyone around her. She has ruined her own and my ...

I want to be a family but I am scarred from what my boyfriend did

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - A few weeks after I had given birth to my baby I found a load of sexting texts on my boyfriend's phone. I knew the person to be a girl he works with and when I asked him about it he said it was just flirting and that I did it all the time. Before my ...

He left me before I could learn anything!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm conflicted... I don't know what to do. One time, just one, I get mad for a foolish reason. He told me, " let's not talk anymore" and deleted me everywhere. I loved him. It just hurts to see how easily he let me go, away from his life...

The relationship is falling apart and I just feel that I was right all along

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - This feels so tiring and I feel I have no strength to even carry on writing.. Some months back I wrote about my current long distance relationship. He, a soldier far abroad, .. I need the real talk here, as if you guys were my friends in real lif...

Verbally abused and hurt and confused and now he won't take my phone calls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

25 October 2015 (F) - hurt and confused,I been verbally abuse by my man sam,accused of everthing,Sam start argument and move out for two weeks,i secretly voice record him,what I heard sound like he was snorting meth or coke, when I ask him,he said he sick of this ...

Is feeling good about yourself is a sin? Or am I expecting too much from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I have on and off relationship with my current be of 4 years. Yesterday I changed in profile picture , which is my really fav picture and I like how I look in the picture. Earlier I used to have low self esteem issues, never really lik...

Do you think I should tell my husbands boss to mind her own business?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, Do you think I should tell my husbands boss to mind her own business? My husband who is a licensed RN took a school nurse job that pays 20 grand lower than his market value than he would be making in most other nursing jobs. To ...

I can't stop thinking about him but I don't want to contact him first

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3353 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Okay I've never had this happen before so I'm a little confused. This guy started talking to a couple months ago I was in a very depressed moment and I was in a horrible relationship with my ex. Well me and the other guy talked but it wasn't about ...

Do I cut my losses and move on? He keep coming up with excuses why we can't meet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

23 October 2015 (F) - why do guys do things the way they do , ive been chatting with a guy online for a while and we reached the point to delete our profiles even tho we hadnt met by that stage , weve arranged a few times a date but he keeps coming up with the most ...

I surprised him by doing the housework but he reduced me to tears. Is this guy worth being with?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

23 October 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. Last night I went over to his house but got there an hour before he did. The house was a mess with dishes and dirty laundry everywhere so I thought as a surprise before he comes home I would clean. (as a ...

What can I do to NOT be a control freak and be the best girlfriend I can?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

22 October 2015 (?) - I have been in a long distance relationship for several months now. He is in the military and has a great deal of responsibilities and the majority of his day majorly structured and planned out for him. I work full time, but have a good deal...

We bicker so much. Breaking up is proving hard to do. How do I proceed from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

22 October 2015 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. About 3 months ago we decided to move out together, however we moved to a different town, not too far from home, maybe about 2 hours. At first I was happy and enjoying the new change, but within ...

My ex's new girlfriend is out to get me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

22 October 2015 (F) - Since my ex split up with me back in March and went straight with another woman, this girl has done nothing but try and wind me up. Ive let them get on with things, I never publicly slated her or tried to split them up even though on this inside I ...

I'm scared of this man's behavior!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

22 October 2015 (F) - Actually I am in a trouble. Opposite to my PG one guy is staring. At the very first time he used to stare at me and one night he was coming along with his friends and i was talking on phone he called me by making some noise. I got scared and ran ...

I'm second best to my boyfriend's dog!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

21 October 2015 (F) - Hi my boyfriend and I have been together 3 years we have a 10 month old daughter he has a doberman which he had when we met he has just moved in a few months ago but we have just discovered our daughter has a allergy to the dog now my boyfriend is ...

Was I nothing more than a fling to him? How long do I hold out hope that he'll contact me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

21 October 2015 (F) - Where did I go wrong? I'm quite a mess at the moment. I just returned from a visit to Europe. Long story short, I was studying abroad for college, and we travelled by coach (bus) to all countries. We always had the same bus, and the same bus dri...

Should I contact this friend to see if we actually still are friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

21 October 2015 (M) - Okay, I'll try and make this as short as possible. So, I met this guy back in July online and we got close, (or at least I did). We spoke everyday for almost 2 months and then kind of spiraled down to once a week. I asked him if he was annoyed by me ...

Do I have reasons to be frustrated with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

20 October 2015 (F) - Im currently frustrated with my boyfriend. Can you please let me know if I have reason to be frustrated or I'm just totally pms-ing? My boyfriend's friend got into an accident and needed to bring his car to get fixed at the autobody shop. My boyfr...

My boyfriend of one year is pushing to get married and I'm not ready for it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

20 October 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. I am 32 and he is 37. Neither of us have been married or have children.We live about 40 mins from one another. Here is the problem. He has been putting the pressure on me very heavy the last 4-5 ...

My piano teacher and I are close, but is it too close?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

20 October 2015 (F) - My teacher and I are very close. He always tells me I'm his favorite student and we always joke and have interesting sometimes inappropriate conversations. He told me I'm beautiful, he always gets upset when other people hit on me. And he has hugged ...

I need help finding a solution!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

19 October 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been with my man for almost a year now and lately we've been speaking about our future in terms of where we may live one day. He used to talk openly about it but lately he seems short with me when I bring it up and I'll explain...

No matter how much I show him the moment I don't it's like everything else I do isn't good enough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

19 October 2015 (F) - My boyfriend gets upset/frustrated with me when I don't give him a hug or cuddles because he wants me to show him some love. I'm not like him because I like my space and I don't really like cuddles all of the time. It's not the case at all that I ...

Why does he prefer to masturbate than have sexual things with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

19 October 2015 (F) - Why does he prefer to masturbate than have sexual things with me? I know it's natural for everyone but it makes me feel rejected because then hw doesn't want anything from me. It makes me feel sick. I don't want to feel bad about him doing it. What ...

Advice and Help or shall I give up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

19 October 2015 (M) - have recently separated from My wife and I did not want this she did. Due to a number of issues. Which are 1.A family member causing a Rift and I was not there for her properly during the 1st pregnancy 2. Me making silly mistakes 3. Not...

I love him but I don't want to be in a sexless relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3359 days ago

19 October 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, i am really stuck and dont know what to do. I have been with my BF for 2years now and for the past year or so there has been very little sex, ive tried litterally everything and he always has excuses or very rarely wants to do anything...

My boyfriend's ex is sending me screenshots about him cheating! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

18 October 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years now. He has a kid with another girl. I love him so much and thought he was the one until tonight whenI got a bunch of screenshots of texts from his kid's mom about them hooking up. Apparently they ...

I think I have an 'avoidant/dismissive' attachment style, what steps should I take?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

18 October 2015 (M) - What is wrong with me and relationships from a psychological point of view? I [24 MALE] try to convince myself that I want a relationship when in reality I'm only attracted/drawn to the fact that women want a relationship with me. It's like...

Opened up to him about my vulnerabilities about having sex and now he says he might leave me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - Hi! I have been here before but it was now some time ago. I met a very nice man about 2 years ago and things went fine for quite some time but then I started not wanting to have sex, even feeling very bad about having it. This had happened in ...

I want to feel whole, and satisfied and fulfilled.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - Hello all, I am a 28 year old working female. I am single and haven't seen anyone for a while. There are many reasons for this so let me explain. 1) I was dating a guy.. for about a year. I was deeply in love with him... Even though ...

We went from 7 years of friendship to a very difficult relationship! Now he's blocked me, it hurts so much! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - I have been in this is relationship for close to 12 months now. He has been my colleague (and still is) and was my good friend for 7 years. There were various cues in his behaviour evidencing a romantic interest in me which i over looked ( i never ...

I broke up with her and have some regrets.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

17 October 2015 (M) - I will try to make this short. I am 28 years old and recently got out of 5 years serious LTR(lived in together for 5 years). Problem is I was never very much in love with her to start with. I deeply cared about her but never felt that attraction ...

It sounds to me as if he's attracted to me emotionally, but more attracted to his ex physically. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3361 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - Why did he tell me he always looked for porn of women who looked like his ex yet when I asked him if he ever did that with me whilst we are apart ( LDR) he said he did only once . It makes me feel very unattractive to him when we can't be together ...

Do I risk looking rude if I refuse to hug in future? Or do I have to fit in and do something I feel uncomfortable doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - Hi all, I come from an Asian country, where hugging is not common. I will be moving to Europe next year for my studies, and perhaps work there. I've lived there for half a year before. During that period of time, I met many people and they ...