I can't stop thinking about him but I don't want to contact him first

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay I've never had this happen before so I'm a little confused. This guy started talking to a couple months ago I was in a very depressed moment and I was in a horrible relationship with my ex. Well me and the other guy talked but it wasn't about dating it was just friends. He would always tell me I'm beautiful and how amazing I was, what a great mom I was and stuff like that we didn't talk all the time. It was Here and there. Well in September he asked me if I wanted to go out with him one night and I said yea. So on 9-11 we hung out he wanted to go out to eat but I was to nervous so I told him I had already ate. Well he took me to this place it was like a look out place and he told me he had never taken anyone there except his son. We talked for a few hours about everything he was telling me personal things like his dad left him and he hasn't ever met him. He was telling me about his last relationship about how he got cheated on and stuff. He told me he isn't usually nice to girls like he's nice to me. And we both know the same people and everyone has told me he used to be a jerk. But he wasnt a jerk to me any way we didn't kiss or nothing. We just hugged for a good 10 minutes or so. He kept telling me I was pretty, he kept staring at me and smiling. Well after that we kept talking then on that Sunday I took my daughter to the park and he asked me what park I was at and he brought his son his son is 4 and my daughter is 4. But they didn't really pay attention to each other because they was playing of course but he stayed for about 30 minutes and when he left he hugged me. Well after that we didn't really talk much other then when he would tell me I was beautiful or something. Then we started talking more. He asked me what I wanted from him and I didn't know what to say so I asked him what he wanted from me and he said kisses, cuddling and to love on him. I then told him I wasn't interested in sex right now and that if he wanted to stop talking to me he could he said he wouldn't stop talking to me over that. He told me that he really liked me. And that I was amazing and that he thought about me all the time which I felt the same way. Well we kept talking. And then one day he asked me to come over to his house there was a movie I had been wanting to watch and he just happened to have it. So I went to his house and we watched the movie and talked. And then he hugged me and then all of a sudden kissed me it wasn't a quick kiss it was a make out kiss. Any way then we went to his room and we fooled around but didn't have sex he asked me if I wanted to and I said no and he was fine with it. We just cuddled and talked. The whole night he kept staring at me and smiling. And he would stare at me in my eyes which freaked me out. Any way we talked a few more times after that. But here lately for about over a week we haven't talked really other then when he messaged me and told me I was beautiful. Any idea on what's going on? I can't stop thinking about him but I don't wanna talk to him first because I don't want to bug him but he's told me before that I won't bug him

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