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Archived questions from: 7 January, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm back with my ex but I'm not sure its a good thing

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - Has too much happened to try again? I've been in realationship with now ex bf for 5 months. He really swept me off my feet, we have fun and are into the same things. The relationship has been full on virtually from the beginning. I'm a lone paren...

I don't know if we are on a break, or this is a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - Hey everyone , so me and my boyfriend were doing fine , I thought untill one day he decided to take "a break". He is a senior and works a lot and is spending a lot of time with his friends that are moving away for college along with dealing with ...

When do guys get mature?or does that never happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4328 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - It will be 4 years this year that i m with my current bf...in distance relationship. We ve been madly in love since we met n last fall i was supposed to move to his country n continue university there but since we didnt manage to do that,we blamed e...

Why does my BF go quiet for a few days after we've had sex? Does this mean he only contacts me when he's horny?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 2.5 years now and he has a habit which upsets me quite a bit. A lot of the time when we have sex he goes very quiet for a couple of days afterwards. He will text me regularly and call every night beforehand ...

Girlfriend cheated on me but I want her back! How can I persuade her I won't hold this against her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - I have been in a relationship for last four years with my girl. We did everything except sexual intercourse. Recently, when she was drunk, some random guy took her from bar and it seems he had sexual intercourse with her. Now she feels that she is ...

Why is my boyfriend so convinced that my parents don't like him? How can I change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 25 and he is convinced my parents don't like him. This is not true - I have obviously spoken to them about him many times and they think he is great and said they have never seen me so happy. Based on past boyfriends they would ...

Is my boyfriend using escort services again? Should I hire a private investigator or just end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I'm struggling. The men among you might help me out... 3 years ago, I discovered my boyfriend (then of 7 years) had been visiting escorts. I found this out after becoming suspicious of his behaviour and after some crafty web-history anal...

Husband spends his alone during the week watching porn, then expects sex on a plate at the weekends. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - My husband and I are on two different work schedules so we only see each other for an hour or so a day until the weekend. During the week my husband just watches porn and then thinks that I am supposed to be available for sex all weekend. It makes...

I slept with my friends boyfriend 2 days before their baby is due. Do I tell her?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - So I've had this friend for 3 years. Me and her met because I hooked up with her boyfriend unknowingly. He split with her before I found out, but still cheated on her with me. Then cheated on me with her. So me and her became friends, long story sh...

My relationship doesn't seem to be moving forwards. I don't want to push him but should I keep on waiting for him to decide what he wants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly three and a half years. We lived together for about six months early last year but I left because he asked for space, so fair enough. But we have stayed in the relationship since. But I am looking to ...

He is being manipulated by another woman. How should I get him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - This is my story: I met a really great guy two years ago. We eloped too fast and talked about marriage too fast. The first problem started when I found out he had unfinished business with his ex girlfriend and was still communicating wi...

My BF is going through a rough time and is homeless. How can I comfort him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - So this guy I've been seeing for a while is going through a bit of a rough time. Long story short, he's basically homeless right now, and it particularly sucks because he's very new to the area and he considered the people he lived with family. ...

He blames me for everything. Any advice on how to alleviate the tension and reduce the stress in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend says that I don't take responsibility for anything and that I blame him for everything. I personally feel the oppposite. He refuses to see when something IS his fault and immediately jumps on the "Oh, so I'm the bad guy" train. ...

Why isn't this a relationship for him? I'm not a cheap bit on the side!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4328 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - hi cupids, need a little help. my OH and i have been together for a few months and im having concerns already. hes a nice guy but i feel like hes hiding me from his life a bit. we both have kids and have met eachothers kids but were not in a ...

Am I completely ruining my life? Do I need to stop drinking? Get help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - So I've recently been doing a great job at ruining my life. After a horrific break-up with a recent ex, (we'll call him M) I've just managed to make a balls of my life at every open opportunity. After the relationship ended I was feeling quite fr...

I didn't give her the attention she wanted but now I'm not sure I can forget her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - I am a south Asian man.Our family values are bit different.for example our family or few family members might be financially depended on us.Usually Indian men does not like his wife or GF get closer to other men.I like a white girl.But it was too ...

My boyfriend is hiding something from his past and won't talk to me about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - hii, im in relationship from 2 years ..My boyfriend is hiding something about his past... not regarding any relationship..its regarding his friends he had.. its 1st time v r being in relationship with each other.... but something which bothers hi...

Girlfriend went off of her medication and changed. Now I feel needy like I need medication!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - I was introduced to this woman 4 months ago and we instantly hit it off. Our conversations were long and in depth. There was a connection I have never felt with anyone before.. physically, spiritually, emotionally and we both made a comment that it ...