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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for nearly three and a half years.We lived together for about six months early last year but I left because he asked for space, so fair enough. But we have stayed in the relationship since.But I am looking to move into my own flat soon and since we are still together I have asked if he would like to live with me again. He has said he would but does not want to rush things.I understand this however he had half a year to sort himself out (while he lived alone), and I suppose over three years being with me to decide if it is what he wants?I dont want to push him but I don't know if I should wait anymore? We have been in a long distance relationship since he asked for space, and things are getting hard. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (8 January 2013):
 OK, you left because he asked for space. You gave him space. Now it's not going anywhere.
He's not interested.
Move on and find someone who is.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 January 2013):
 at your age, with the length of the relationship, I can pretty much tell you that you are not his special one..
he's with you until someone who truly lights his fire comes along.
I would not wait.
I would not move in with him.
I would get my own place and slowly wean him off of you.
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reader, Goldiefoxxx +, writes (7 January 2013):
Generally when a guy says " I need space" that's actuallly guy for "I want out". You've been together for a long time and he doesn't seem to have made an effort to further anything. I feel its a lost cause, stick with your independence, and maybe he will come around, but he sounds as though he isn't looking for anything serious.
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