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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do you think he really does just hate technology, or does he not care enough to stay in contact more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend used to text loads and basically stay in touch loads when we were first going out, but these days it feels like he forces himself to contact at all? He says he hates texting and doesnt really like phone calling or emailing much ei...

Texting, coming over, then ignoring me! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - me and my bf broke up he couldn't handle a gf at the moment ignored me for about 2 weeks finally came over had a great night then a couple days later ignored me again. came over again everything was perfect between us slept over and then I mentioned ...

Trying to work things out with the ex but I'm giving him enough rope to hang himself. How long do I give him to change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I have decided to work our relationship out. In 3 years, we've broken up twice and have been through a lot together. Our breakups centered around him basically not having enough time for me, and by that I mean literally seeing ...

I feel like making random strangers happy is more important to him than prioritizing our own relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - I feel funny about a situation that came up with my boyfriend last night but I am not sure how to handle it. Last night my boyfriend (of 3 months) was texting a friend and when i walked near him, he quickly moved the phone so I couldn't read it...

We're going to the dance as friends but he told everyone he was going to have sex with me after the dance. He's so disrespectful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - So I have a dance coming up in a month where it is a girls ask guys dance. Well one of my guy friends that I've known for over 4 years wanted to go with me and I figured hey, why not. So I asked him (more like he asked me). Well it's been a week and ...

Should I tell my husband to evict him? And that I've been flirting with the younger cute male student we sub-let a room to?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - Times have been hard lately for my husband and I so we got a room mate to help split the rent of our 3 bedroom 3 bathroom home.I'm 27 and my husband is 29 our new room mate is a 20 year old college student, pretty quit and geeky. I'm a stay at home ...

I havent spoken to her in 2 years but I still cant forget about her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

14 January 2013 (M) - hi everyone, I really want to know how to truly forget someone. I haven't talked to her for more than two years but today I still can't forget her. Me and her never were in a relationship but we were almost there. In the past two years, I have be...

I always ignore the red flags because I think I can change them! How do I stop this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

14 January 2013 (?) - I can't seem to stop picking "fixing upper" guys...they're always already broken somehow. My first boyfriend had family issues and subsequently could not have feelings in a relationship. My most recent boyfriend felt like he wasn't good enough for ...

It seems like she cheated then ended our relationship just to save face, and it is really hard for me to get over what she did....

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14 January 2013 (M) - My college girlfriend and I "broke up" but still talked just about everyday. About three weeks later we were "a thing" again. Now four months down the road we still are and things are great. Whenever I'm happy she's super happy, sex is great, and ...

My boyfriend rarely wants sex, how can I help him overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - I'm 26, my partner's 28, and we've been together for 18 months. We met through a classic car show for enthusiasts of 1970s/80s cars and have been together since. We were friends first, but he was a bit wary about flirting with me, so I had to do it ...

I don't trust him anymore and am thinking about leaving, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - I and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 years now, we love each other despite religion differences, he pays me visit and calls me, he introduce me to his male friends but now everything has changed. Now he does not call except when i call ...

Should I stay and wait for an answer? Or should I go? If I leave, there is no coming back....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend was out of town for a week for a work related class. Before he left I had flipped out on him about how I feel that his actions say he has little to no feelings or love for me anymore. Unfortunately, I chose a relationship with ...

This guy is creeping me out by staring at me, why is he doing it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - There is this guy, everytime I see him he just stares at me I can feel his eyes on me every time he never talks to me, he looks at me then looks away. But today he looked at me, took a breath in then out, then looked away, what does it mean? why is ...

Is there ever a good reason or explanation for cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - I learned my lesbian gf was cheating on me by talking with other women. One in particular I caught her talking with twice. After the first time getting caught she promised she was sorry and she wouldn't do anything like that to hurt me again. She ...

My boyfriend says he's over his ex but I don't think so! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone! I am so sorry for the length!! I have been with my bf for 3 years, we live together for 2 years now. His ex lives in another country with her fiance. My bf and her broke up about 1 year before we met. They still talk...i have no p...

She knows that I love her but says that "she doesn't see me that way" How can I change her feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

14 January 2013 (M) - I have known this girl for almost 5 years,we became classmates but got to know her well from past 3 years. Back then i had a crush on one of my thai friend, so my classmates use to make fun of me. And this Indian girl i use to consider her as a ...

How can I deal with my housemate's partner who almost lives with us, but won't pull his weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - Need honest advice.. I've lived with my boyfriend in a small 3 bedroom share house for over 2 years. Just under a year ago, we found a third housemate who was great. I introduced her to one of my male friends and they soon started dating. Sin...

Will this work? I'm married and I recently accepted the offer of my (separated) boss, to be his Girlfriend/mistress

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - I recently accepted the offer of my boss, to be his Girlfriend/mistress. He is separated with 3 kids living with his wife and family. I'm married, with an understanding husband and a 3 year old daughter. We hooked up 2 only and 1 to 2 hours only ...

How can I encourage my husband to work with me to improve our mutal enjoyment during our intimate moments?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - Hello, I need help. I have been married for 6 years with 2 kids, and it is safe to say I am the sole caregiver for my kids, my husband pretty much sits and watches. Like a stranger and every now and then would either criticize what am doing or...

Boyfriend lost his dad and is suffering, but he raised his hand to me and is very angry/abusive. What if he does it again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, I am 24 and I have been dating my boyfriend since I was 15!things were going really great,we got into the same college finished our degress,we have a very good job,although my boyfriend comes from a rich family but yet he decided ...

How can I block out what my parents said and still lead a happy life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

14 January 2013 (M) - I asked a question sometime ago (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-just-flunked-out-of-college-and-am.html) I was feeling very hopeful and confident about my future after reading the responses. I told my parents and they did not take the news we...

I lost my only friend because I treated him so badly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - i had a best friend i lived with for 7 years whose feelings i have hurt deeply. i don't know what i can do to change his feelings and show him i care about him and love him. he did sooo much for me, got me into school, paid for my tution,, did ...