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writes:I am a south Asian man.Our family values are bit different.for example our family or few family members might be financially depended on us.Usually Indian men does not like his wife or GF get closer to other men.I like a white girl.But it was too late for me to understand that she liked me.such a wonderful,kindly girl.I was bit scared whether she would adjust to my family and we have 8 years age different.But really I like her deeply(not because of white skin).she even proposed me indirectly.I did not say any thing.I feel guilt that I made her fall in love with me and I could not make a decision.But now,she is not talking with me much.I not sure whether I can forget her in life time.what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (13 January 2013):
 "You've seen it in the films and heard it in songs - tell her"
You mean the films and songs that would have you on one knee begging for her to see you? I'm afraid this is Hollywood garbage and it's no wonder with stuff like this out there in the media most guys haven't a clue about women.
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reader, Rupan +, writes (9 January 2013):
Rupan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your support.Actually I am planning to meet her in sometime. At least I want her to be my friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2013): Get some courage and fight for her. If you want her you will do anything to get her back, even if she tells you know just keep trying. Flowers, jewelry choclate, sweet messages, morning wake up calls that you just called to say you love her. No woman can resist romance and attention especially if she loves you.
You rather try than regret not having tried and never knowing that you could have got her back. Stop the pity and do something about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2013): My friend, there is only one thing to do. You've seen it in the films and heard it in songs - tell her. First, work out what you want. If that is her, you need to say so, clearly. Be brave.
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (8 January 2013):
You blew it. You are out of there I'm afraid. There is nothing you can do now. She will always remember you're rejection and will never go back.
It might not even be the fact you rejected her but the fact you could not make a decision. That's a turn off for women.
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