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writes:hii,im in relationship from 2 years ..My boyfriend is hiding something about his past... not regarding any relationship..its regarding his friends he had.. its 1st time v r being in relationship with each other.... but something which bothers him also...i have asked him few times... but he is not comfortable telling it to me nor to anyone.. im not happy with it... i feel he is hiding something from me... that thought comes to me.. but i dont want to bother him by asking it again and again.... but those thoughts kills me some times.how can i make peace with that past thing....because i want to settled down with him... i dont want that to bother me anymore... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2013): and his few friends who r his friends of friends also knows dat... i feel am i so far for him to say it....
and if i wd not have known that he is hiding from me i wd not hve minded by any chance.... i got to know .. thats where im feeling for it....
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2013): hmm...
i was in relationship with him all time... and i never forced him anytime.... i have not harrassed him to say like that...
hmmm ok thanks anyway for ur answers....
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2013): I agree with the other poster, everyone has the right to some amount of privacy, and just because you are in a relationship with someone does not mean that you do have to know everything that has ever happened in their lives before you came into it. In fact the more of an issue you make out of not knowing, the less likely he will feel comfortable sharing it with you. "A feeling" is not a good enough reason to be harrassing him to tell you something he is not comfortable sharing, just keep focusing on what you have together and not about what happened when you were not in a relationship with him. Good Luck.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (7 January 2013):
How do you know he's hiding something? "A feeling" isn't a good enough reason to go harassing him about it. Also, keep in mind that people have the right to some amount of privacy.
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