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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 years now, we love each other despite religion differences, he pays me visit and calls me, he introduce me to his male friends but now everything has changed. Now he does not call except when i call him, he keeps asking me if i love him, i caught him with a lady but he pretends as if it was his friend's girlfriend, when ever i visit he always likes to touch my breasts, kiss me and even want to have sex me but i refused because i think this not the right time for that. i don't trust him any more i feel like quiting, advice please.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 January 2013):
 Ok let me get this straight:
Everything has changed. Meaning he no longer is rowing this relationship boat. He is not calling you. When yolu go to see him he only wants sex right? He does not treat you properly. YOU DO NOT TRUST HIM
IF you are 25 you have been with him since you are 21. If you are 21 you have been with him since you were 17. What you want at 21 and 17 is NOT what you want at 25… trust me.
You feel like quitting. You want advice… I think if you don’t trust him and he’s not rowing your relationship boat (he does not call you, he does not make any effort to make the relationship work) then you need to end the relationship. The pain of ending it will be short compared to the pain of dragging it out in hopes that he will change.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (14 January 2013):
Marry him of course!
Actually it might make more sense to break up with him since you don't trust him and you don't want to be with him.
If by "What should I do" you're asking for a "how do I break up with him" answer than I always recommend the honest approach. He screwed up. Tell him that. Even if it was just a friend he hasn't managed to convince you so you don't want to be with someone you can't trust.
Tell him there's nothing that he can do at this point and you'd like to move on so you'd appreciate it if he'd let you do so without any drama.
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (14 January 2013):
 What more is there to say? You don't TRUST him. You cannot be in a relationship if there's no trust there. It will all go wrong. It's just a matter of time.
Time for you to leave this guy and find someone else who makes you happy and is trustworthy.
It's a simple solution to a simple problem really.
Good luck.
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