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*exy babe1980
writes:There is this guy, everytime I see him he just stares at me I can feel his eyes on me every time he never talks to me, he looks at me then looks away. But today he looked at me, took a breath in then out, then looked away, what does it mean? why is he doing it? please help I see him all the time he work in then same building as I work. it makes me feel creep. thank you for taking your time to read it Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 January 2013):
 he may like you. and be nervous to say something.
are you open to that or is your screen name indicative of how you see your self and you don't see him as worthy of this?
or is your screen name an indication of how you dress? maybe you are sexy and he likes to look?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2013): Well, it depends if you've spoken to him before about it properly. As awkward as it may feel and if you want it to stop- you're best just asking him what his problem is. Avoiding confrontation and being creeped out won't help solve the issue, if you catch him doing it again, just pluck up some courage, go over and ask him. E.g. 'I couldn't help notice you staring at me, and it's not the first time either. Anything I can help you with?'
Not in a sarcastic, snotty way; just make sure you're clear when you ask and see what he says. Then just go from there, just be calm and polite and it should be fine :-)
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reader, CMMP +, writes (14 January 2013):
It could mean that he finds you attractive and doesn't realize he's staring so much so he doesn't look away when you notice.
It also could be that he's not staring at you as much as just staring into space and it looks like he's staring at you. I was caught staring at someone recently but I was really just zoning out looking through the window. They just were in the way.
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reader, Ra911  +, writes (14 January 2013):
Its either this guy likes you or he has some issues with. Look in for subtle signs, if they turn out to be negative better be cautious.
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (14 January 2013):
 What it means is he is a WACKO.
Simple.
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