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writes:one night, my bf and i went out with another couple which the girl is my bff. and after bar we all expiremented a lil bit, we all never done this before. the first night was way akward, it was spose to be just me and my bff while the guys watched, but some how it turned into her bf touching me and my bf touching her..somewhere in the middle my bf had the idea to have sex whith my bff n i have sex with her bf, that idea was shot down, after that i told my bf nomore.. i was not comfortable with it....but this weekend we went out and thats all he talked about was that night and that me and my bff should mess around infront of him (my bf) my bff bf was not there this time...we got back to my house and some how the subject of him eating her out came along, n i was so drunk and he was to, while my bff wqas sober she doesnt drink at all...anyways he ended up eating her out while i was sitting there..it was ok at first , then i started to feel hurt n cry..and my bf told me to be quiet???????? really what is anyones opinion on this?
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (28 October 2011):
 Oh wow. That is horrible. How insensitive and inconsiderate. I would get a new boyfriend and a new best friend. Alcohol is no excuse either, but your best friend was sober?? Geez. Find new company asap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2011): Get some new friends, stop drinking and doing things you are not proud of later.
Get a new bf, and a new bff. These "friendships" are destructive, and that is not friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2011): Your boyfriend is horrible and disgusting! If I were in your shoes I would dump him immediately, he's not worth it if he's basically cheating on you, and as for your friend, she doesn't even sound like a friend! But you should also be a bit ashamed because in a way you didn't argue at all about what your bf said about him makin out with your bff. To me it's just terribly wrong!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): Your man and best friend have a thing for each other. tbh? Your man seems to have few to no inhibitions and is probably messing around behind your back.. or will start now. And whats up with your supposed bff? SOunds like you need a new one of both.
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reader, katiekate +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Yes, of course you have the right to be mad. And what is your bff's excuse?? She wasn't even drinking! How long have you been with this guy? I would not be surprised if they continued to mess around behind your back. I would get rid of him. This behavior will probably continue, if it hasn't already. You should be with someone who only wants to be with YOU!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): I agree with eyeswideopen. Get yourself a new BF and BFF.
Yes, you have the right to be mad at the fact he didn't respect you enough to stop when he saw you were hurt. But you said it was fine to start with, so you clearly let him do it...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Your boyfriend has the hots for your girlfriend. I'd most likely get a new of each if I were in your shoes.
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