A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Please give me honest advice....There's an old friend of mine from high school who got back in touch with me a few months ago. We're both at different colleges now. He confessed how much he liked me since 10th grade and I had like him too but we never acted on it before. So we talked for a long time that night he contacted me and he commented on how beautiful he thought I was and how he always wanted to see a pic of me topless. I didn't realy want to do that and I've never done that before, but I thought it would be something different (albiet, stupid) but I sent him one anyway. He continued to talk to me everyday multiple times a day and kept saying how much he liked me. I told him how I felt about having a hard time trusting and opening up to guys and he said I was the only girl he was talking to/thinking about and I could trust him. Eventually his texts dwindled to about once or twice a week. Then, he eventaully stopped so I texted him and sometimes he would never answer. So finally I told him I didn't appreciate what he was doing and after the whole pic thing I felt used and lied to. He apologized and said he was just super super busy and I could trust him and he'll text me when he could. Eventually I gave up on waiting for him to talk to me again and after a few weeks he pops up and asks if there's a guy in my life and says "you don't like me anymore do you?" after we talk for a bit he says he wants to see me over christmas break and then he asks for another picture. Since that convo its been a few days since he talked to me and I text him last night but he didn't answer...He's using me isn't he? I don't think someone is ever TOO busy to talk to someone they TRULY want to talk to. It only takes a few seconds to answer a text. What should I do?
View related questions:
christmas, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (16 October 2011):
 When a man is interested and really likes a woman, they will pursue them and keep in touch. This is particularly true in the beginning of a relationship. Yours is a typical situation: he was in touch with you, feeding you all types of BS to make you feel special, so you would send some racy pics over. You did and BAM - immediately there is less contact. He got what he wanted and now he's just not that interested in putting in more energy to communicate. He will now only talk to you when he is bored, or not talking/texting other women - OR when he feels like seeing another nude pic of you.He's playing with you and wants nothing serious aside from some pics and probably sex. If you ignore him, he will contact you again....but only because he sees it as a challenge, not because he likes you. The truth sucks, but this guy sounds like someone who is still out playing the fiel and enjoying life, like most guys his age. Learn from this and move on.
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2011): yeah. He is mean and he is a cheat. I think he is using you. Beware !
...............................
|
