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Archived questions from: 12 August, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I stop living in fear of my boyfriend emotionally or physically cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - How do I stop living in fear of my boyfriend emotionally or physically cheating on me and just be with him happily. He has never done anything to betray my trust, and every time I have had an issue, he explains it. But it's a huge strain and I hav...

I don't want my fiance having strippers at his party!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - Tomorrow night will be my bachelorette party and my fiance will be having his bachelor party. We are having two separate parties and I would like him to come home that night. He refuses. Our mutual friend who isn't going to his told me that there ...

Would you date a girl who had many sugar daddies??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (M) - So I met this girl. Real pretty. Grew up in Europe (Czech Rep.). Dated a few times. Then she tells me about her sugar daddies. For those who dont know a sugar daddy is an older man who gives money to young women in exchange for sexual favors. ...

Constant arguments are straining our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - My name is Veronica, ill be 18 next month, i dont know if our younge ages effect our relationship my fiance is 20, yes i am engaged.. im constantly arguing with, i feel like this is just pushing us apart, we have 2 baby girls so that builds m...

Why isn't he doing the little things like kissing and forgiving me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - Should I stay or go? I have on and off (more on) with my bf for about 18 mos. now. He s divorced and has full custody of his kids one girl 4 and one boy who is almost 2. He works alot and sometimes it seems that he just don't have the time I need ...

I miss how we used to be....is there any way to make it good again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - Basically i have been with my partner for 11 months and we are only young, but i really do love him. Recently i cant help but feeling that the relationship is dry, and i always think about how we used to be, compared to now, it really gets me down. ...

Why can’t I just think YES - for better or worse – if the man I love starts talking about marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is divorced with one child. When I met him I didn’t want to date him (he approached me first) because I prefer men who have not been married before, as I have not been married before. I had never dated a divorced guy before him so the ...

Do guys mean it if they say they love you back?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - If you tell a guy you love him amd he says back' I love you too' does he mean it? or do some guys just say it for the sake of it? I told my BF this, and he said he loves me to, but I;m not sure how to take it. Do I take it he means it? or else he ...

Is it possible to be in a relationship when I know he's having sex with other women as his job?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

12 August 2011 (?) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 1 year and we love each other. i tried to hook up with him then because friends told me he was trying to get into the porn business so i thought he would be big. he is, trust me. he did not get an offer from ...

I broke up with my boyfriend to be with him, but now he doesn't want a relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - I kind of have feelings for this guy, we have been through a lot together, I broke up with my boyfriend to be with him and now even though he still likes me he doesn't want a relationship as it is 'too much effort' I lost my ex, who I still kind of ...

Am I just thinking too much and putting us both under too much pressure?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

12 August 2011 (M) - I haven't posted to this website for some time. But I feel it's time to write back and thank all those who helped me in the past. Your advice allowed me to make the right decisions and see clearly. And to also provide a safe outlet for expressing my ...

We cant go anywhere because he used to go to these places with his ex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - My bf and I live in a small town, so there is only one cinema, one shopping cnetre etc. Now his ex also lives in the same small town (whereas I am from another city). Because him and his ex used to go to the cinema, shopping centre, coffee s...

Should I have kicked out my boyfriend for yelling at my son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - Should I have kicked my boyfriend out for shouting at my son? I'm torn by what's recently happened and don't know whether to defend my son and throw my boyfriend out or dissipline my son? He's 6 years old and a bit boystrous at times. Yesterday...

He was coming on really strong sexually, why would he do that? Is he really sorry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - Why would he do that? is he really sorry? should I give him a chance? I really like this guy at my work place. He always stares at me when am not looking and looks away when I catch him staring. Anyways I gave him my number and we were text...

My boyfriend had sex with a girl when we broke up for only 2 days!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - I just found out that my boyfriend went and had sex with a girl once when we broke up for only 2 days. Technically he didn't cheat but it feels like it. He never told me, I had to find out from another person months later. He told me he regretted it ...

I'm hurting. How can I understand why she broke up with me? And how can I get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

12 August 2011 (M) - It has been a month since my girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me and i am wondering how long will it take to get over her and not want to always contact her just to see how she is. I know if i contact her and she is extremely happy it will...

I turned down his proposal and now I'm worried about how he's handling it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - long story short ....my partner of 7 years asked me to marry him..problem is im not ready to get married to anyone and I declind his proposal. I feel really awful about the situation..I didn't say no because I don't love him it's just I'm not rea...

He keeps looking for me when we break up. Why is it so difficult to leave an abusive relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - Why is it so difficult to leave an abusive relationship... I wuz married for 10 yrs to my high school sweetheart.. he staret to physically abuse me... when he would get drunk or b high on drugs... I put up with it cuz I thought I could b the one to ...

I can't ask my Mother. I need to ask my Doctor. How can I get the courage to do this, And also get my Mother to listen to me without judging me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - Please Help. I dont feel like i can go to my mum with any problems i have, in the past, told her stuff. One time i told her something. i never told anyone, i trusted her not to tell anyone. so I told her. Then i found out she had told her best frie...

How else can I live alone on my income if I break up with my unreliable boyfriend? Because I need to end this relationship now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

12 August 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I fell in love with a drug and alcohol addict. We have been together for the past 5 years. He no longer does drugs nor drinks, to my knowledge (and he's always either at home or at work). However, he just keeps messing up... First...