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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why would he do that? is he really sorry? should I give him a chance?I really like this guy at my work place. He always stares at me when am not looking and looks away when I catch him staring.Anyways I gave him my number and we were texting and ringing me. He told me he's been attracted to me since he saw me.We go chatting and he came on really strong sexually, asking when we're going to have sex etc: I think he was trying to find out the kind of girl I am.I felt really awkward and didn't go to work the next day and he's been apologising since. He's on holiday but he rang me (an hour on the phone) from Italy still apologising he says he doesn't want me to think of him like that. He seems like a shy guy and I really like him. But am not sure. (Am leaving my job for college in 4weeks) he says we should go out on a date.What do you think? Should I forget about it?Thanks..xx
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (12 August 2011):
i would give him another chance it seems he,s realised his mistake and has apologised for it
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (12 August 2011):
 Hopefully, I'm getting this right.
You both started this thing with different intentions. I'm thinking that you were looking for a relationship, the kind where you get to know each other and see if you're a fit for a relationship, whereas he was sizing you up for sex. Of course you weren't ready for the coming on strong of sex, and he realized that you weren't some hookup FWB material, which was why he was apologizing.
At least he picked up on his mistake and is starting over the right way and wanting to date you.
I think it would be okay to date him, and take things slow sexually. Just explain that you're not a fast mover sexually, and if he's really a player, he'll lose interest. If he's not, then he'll show you that he cares about getting to know more than just your body!
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