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I broke up with my boyfriend to be with him, but now he doesn't want a relationship!

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Question - (12 August 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ethf97 writes:

I kind of have feelings for this guy, we have been through a lot together, I broke up with my boyfriend to be with him and now even though he still likes me he doesn't want a relationship as it is 'too much effort'

I lost my ex, who I still kind of have feelings for but am trying to get over, for this guy! And now he is acting like I did nothing?' Im not sure if a relationship would work as well as the one with my ex anyway so I dot know if I should just let the feelings go and tell this guy to get over me :/ please help and don't just insult me, I'm confused xx

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A female reader, Bethf97 United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2011):

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Thank you for te advice I really appreciate it :) xx

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A female reader, VSAddict United States +, writes (12 August 2011):

VSAddict agony auntWell if you really want your ex back, then apologize and show him that he can trust you again, and maybe he'll give you another chance.

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A female reader, Bethf97 United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2011):

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Thanks so much guys, I think I will get over the new guy, but I can't get over my ex, and I will learn from my mistakes, love to both of you :) xx

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2011):

if he really wanted to be with you nothing would be to much effort personally i would forget about your ex and this other guy you deserve to be treated with respect by guys not how he is treating you in time you will meet someone that wants to be with you properly and who will treat you right

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A female reader, VSAddict United States +, writes (12 August 2011):

VSAddict agony auntIf he doesn't want a relationship anymore, then get over him. He propably feels it's too much work because he had to get you out of a relationship to be with you. But he brought that on himself because he knew you were taken and could've found someone else. Get over both of the guys and move on. And don't get tempted by someone else when you're in a relationship next time. You never know what they could say or do next.

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