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Archived questions from: December, 2019 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My ex and I remain friends, he has invited me to a family party.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1778 days ago

30 December 2019 (F) - my ex and I dated for two years we have been broken up for a year now we still remain friends and hang out almost everyday he has invited me to a family party what should I expect...

My boyfriend acts single and doesn't respect me.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1778 days ago

30 December 2019 (F) - Hello My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years now. I’m having issues because his social media. He brings his exes to it a lot. Particularly one that I caught him having an emotional affair. As well as a bunch of flirting. He...

I'm in a predicament. Who do I chose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1777 days ago

28 December 2019 (F) - Hello, I was dating a guy who I really loved for three years. After two years, I had to leave the city and settle in another country for work. He was not comfortable with doing a long distance but I was...so we eventually broke up. Our love b...

My boyfriend cheated, and I don't know how to rebuild the trust.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1781 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - Hello, I have been with my partner just over a year. We were work colleagues for around 6 months prior to that, and our relationship didn't start in the best way - my then boyfriend was working away and I had an affair with current boyfrien...

I struggle to trust my judgement when it comes to guys.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1781 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I’m really interested to hear what others think is a ‘normal’ amount of messages to be sending in the very early stages of dating. For context: I’ve been seeing a new guy that I met online for the past month, we’ve...

I feel a complete romantic disaster!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1781 days ago

27 December 2019 (M) - Hi all, and happy holidays! Any help or advice is much appreciated. A few years ago I liked a girl at my school (so much that it became more of an unhealthy obsession than a crush), but was never able to muster up enough courage to finally ask h...

Split for a month and I slept with someone else.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1775 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles I am in a real dilemma, I have been with my man over four years,we have had our ups and downs and he often goes away for a few days and ignored me. A few times we have agreed to split and the last time we did was for a month. I...

My boyfriend and his crazy ex .... I'm wondering if I should just leave them to it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1786 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - My partner and I just got back together, and he has female friends and he slept with all of them. This one in particular that he keeps in contact with I really hate her because she was his gf before we got back together and she did some really nasty ...

I'd rather stick pins in my eyes than take him back, but I feel so lonely.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1788 days ago

20 December 2019 (F) - Hi all, Sorry to being negativity to the table but i'm feeling lonely and wasn't sure where to go to with this. Basically I recently broke up with an abusive boyfriend of many years. I've had a really busy couple of weeks in work and so h...

How do I win my AWOL husband back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1788 days ago

20 December 2019 (F) - Hi I am at my wits end and I don’t know what to do. My husband and I have been separated for years but I’m still in love with him. He won’t divorce me but he’s now moved abroad and aplenty living with somebody. Before he moved away we would meet up ...

My ex keeps contacting me to be nasty.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1790 days ago

17 December 2019 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years split up with me 2 months ago and since then he hasn't stopped texting me abuse about what a horrible person I am and generally putting me down which is really confusing me why is he still texting me all this abuse when hes ...

Is it okay to remain friends with an ex when you are in a new relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1789 days ago

17 December 2019 (F) - Hello aunts Is it a good idea for a couple to stay friends with their respective ex's if the couple is newly in love with each other but still share a friendship that cannot be given up (not sexual feelings but say mutual respect and care with th...

Why is my ex giving me mixed signals?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1793 days ago

15 December 2019 (F) - My ex messaged me 3 times this month. Him and have not spoken in months. The first, “ he asked if I had any plans for my birthday” A few days later, “Just Happy Birthday” A few days later again he said, “ I hope your taking care of yoursel...

My ex is at college with me and he comes up and tries to start arguments with me. How should I act?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1794 days ago

12 December 2019 (F) - Hello agony aunts. I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago, because we basically went through a lot of arguments the last couple of months. It's been a really stressful relationship and very toxic, and every time during a fight he would blame me for ...

It's been over 20 years but how do I turn the feelings off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1795 days ago

10 December 2019 (M) - I had sexual relationship with my cousin for a a long time. We met in a city and we lived together like man and wife for five years. Only one of my brothers knew about it because we live in a city far away from home. After the 5 years each of us got ...

How do I find out if my LDR husband is married to someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1799 days ago

9 December 2019 (F) - Hello I'm Canadian, my husband is African. We met on fb, a friends request. I have been trying to get him to Canada which isn't an easy task. He is even declined on a visitor visa. So I usually go see him in Africa. There has been ...

She moved on, married, had children, but I never got closure.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1799 days ago

6 December 2019 (M) - I met a girl about a year after my divorce and it was a year after her divorce also. We both fell in love and dated each other for about four years. She wanted to get married and have children. I was afraid to get married, so we basically started ...

My estranged husband is still trying to rule my life.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1805 days ago

3 December 2019 (F) - My "estranged" husband is always trying to keep tabs on me and I feel like it's an invasion of my privacy. We are separated and no longer live together. We have a young child (under 10) who lives with me and will stay with him on the occasional w...

My husband accused me of stalking his ex, who he has cheated with in the past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1805 days ago

2 December 2019 (F) - Hi My husband and I have been married almost 3 years. We have had some interference by his exes which I thought was finally done. What I mean by interference is he talks to them on whatsapp. They don’t share any children together and the...

Husband I intend divorcing had a mutual friend contact me for information.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1802 days ago

2 December 2019 (F) - I’m writing this question for people’s views and it will help put my mind at rest. My husband lives in a different country from me, he has been quite abusive towards me in the past and I did everything for him. I also believe he is a narcissi...