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Archived questions from: April, 2017 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Am I being too demanding? His excuse is, ''yes, but just not yet.''

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for several years. We do not live together. He wants me to move in with him, but I won't, because his ex-wife still has a key, and he refuses to change the locks. I don't feel safe leaving my things in his house ...

Why does my ex keep tabs on who I date? What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - It’s ok if he moves on and is in a relationship but its not ok for me to do it?. I’m not saying I let him get involved in my life but my question is what can i do for him to stop/protect myself. (I actually don't let him get involved. He finds out ...

I've been with my boyfriend 2.5 years and never had sex. I think he's in love with his ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - Hi. I am 56years old and my boyfriend is 55. I have been with him for 2 1/2years. Lived with him for 14 months out of that time. He has never made love to me although he says he loves me. I also found out, reading his own words that right before ...

I need to forgive myself.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - The guy I used to date for a short period of time, kind of dumped me in a very rude way. Well I wanted to dump him too, but I tried to do it in a decent way. He got angry and simply dissapeared, not before making me feel like crap. I wished I could ...

What is going on with his ex? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

28 April 2017 (F) - Hi everyone, some of u may remember me from my past questions.. Ill give a little background info. Around october i was really active on this site, I'm 19 years old (now 20) and i was in a really toxic relationship with a 35 year old man.. It was...

The fiance, the step daughter, the baby mama and possible cheating!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2746 days ago

27 April 2017 (F) - Hello, I have been engaged for over 2 years to the man of my dreams. However,we dont get along all the time. He has a daughter and I have a son. Now, his babymother is in the picture and my son father is not. But he gets his daughter every w...

His feelings for me changed so quickly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2245 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Can someone's feeling for you change in two months? My ex and I broke up in September 2015. We didn't speak for 4 months then out of the blue one day he texted me. We started talking, and hanging out as just friends. We talked about stuff like...

I just want to get over my ex and completely move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - I went out with a guy about 12- 13 years ago when I was still in my teens - he was around 3 years older than me at the time. He was the first person that I had ever really fell for, and I would consider him my first love. I sometimes regret a few ...

Should my girlfriend be posting photos of the guy she was seeing when we were broken up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

23 April 2017 (M) - Hi, Recently broke up with my girlfriend and in our break we both were sexually active. The girl I slept with is around at all but the guy is as he's her friend. We got back together recently and she still posts photos of her with him and usually ...

How does one stop being so desperate for a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - How does one stop being so desperate for a man? I realize and this is the lesson (hard learned) that me and most of my gf are desperate for men- so much that sadly we do a lot and get nothing out of relationships- I did a lot for my ex and out of ...

We broke up and we're not a couple any more. Should I be concerned that he's recently had a tattoo of my name inked on his neck?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I'm completely puzzled as to why but my ex boyfriend has just this week gone and got my name tattooed onto the back of his neck and I'm worried he now thinks we are back together after I have been talking to him about the reason I left him. We wer...

I am at the end of desperation with my relationship problem.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I am a married man and I got involved with this super nice girl at work. I love her slightly more than my wife but I can't leave my marriage because of my children. I wanted to leave my wife until my children confronted me and I had no choice. When ...

Should I be unfriendly and block my ex on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Am no longer in a relationship but remain on FB as friends. The man private messages me with casual conversation frequently but doesn't openly address my posts/pictures. He recently asked me if he should accept a friend request from a superior at ...

I stumbled across hidden videos in my girlfriends computer of her having sex with her ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

18 April 2017 (M) - I am engaged to my dream girl and our relationship is perfect. We've been together for 2 years now and We are the perfect couple... or so I thought.. Things changed when I found some things on her lap top. I needed to finish up a report but forgo...

I thought my fiance didn't love his ex wife but his old Facebook post seemed to imply otherwise

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - I am so disappointed please tell me if I'm over reacting. I found an old post from 6 years ago on my Fiancé face book on his marriage anniversary stating how lucky he was to have her and he hit a jackpot and hope this happiness never ends! I know ...

Boyfriend has still kept nude pics of his ex despite being with me for 4 years and 2 kids together

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - So I was trying to get photos off of my camera and save them to my external hard drive using my boyfriends computer. I Accidentally clicked on his porn folder (I don't care that he has porn saved to his computer) my eye was caught by a photo of...

I compared my husband's penis to my ex's and my husband can't get over it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

16 April 2017 (F) - I know the backlash I'm in for... My husband and I have been together over 10 years. Early on, I compared his penis to my exes unfavorably. I don't remember, but it's seared into his memory; I did it multiple times. He tells me that I was passiona...

My girlfriend's casual sexual encounters are bothering me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

16 April 2017 (M) - My gfs sexual past has been bothering me more and more recently. When we first started going out she was my first, I have no sexual experience with any other women whatsoever. So when I found out she'd slept with 8 other men, including one night ...

How do guys cope with knowing their Gf's ex was well endowed? Do girls miss it and just settle ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

14 April 2017 (M) - Hello all, I have always struggled with intimate things as I would be worried about if my partner had been with very well endowed men. I know that statistically most guys will have to deal with that. But how do they? It always seems like...

Dating tips sought, please? Any tips on forgetting about the ex? How to chat up a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

11 April 2017 (M) - Hi guys, I'm having a real hard time at the moment trying to get back out into the world of dating. I've recently finally ended a VERY on/off relationship and I'm trying to put myself back out there to get over it as soon as possible. The...

A women with a boyfriend/kids is texting my boyfriend and he texts back. I'm not happy about this!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

10 April 2017 (F) - I am not sure whether to stay with my boyfriend. We have been together for two months. We had some arguments and i said that i didnt want to see him anymore. I only said that because i was angry that he eas being horrible to me. I told him that i ...

I can't seem to get over the fact that my ex didn't want commitment with me but has found it with someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - I'm having trouble getting over my ex bf. Its been 7 months since we've seen each other, and its not getting any easier for me. We were on and off for about 6 years. He ended it always saying he wasn't ready to commit, but would always return to me. ...

How should I start the conversation with the baby's father?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - The baby's father and I only knew each other 3 months prior to me getting pregnant. I am currently 29 weeks. He was 100% aware of the possiblity of me getting pregnant and we had even talked about it. He had said he wanted to have a kid with me ...

My boyfriend texted his ex and said he missed her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - Hi all, I think I've got a messy situation on my hands... I love my boyfriend very much. We've been together for half a year and he had only just broken up with his ex when we got together. He was with her for 3 years. Normally I wouldn't be ...

I still think of my ex all the time. Does that suggest that I should break up with the new lady, who I am currently dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

4 April 2017 (M) - Am seeing some one new, for the last couple months, so my question is, what does it mean when I say, ''I wish my ex would of treated me this good''. Does it mean I should break up with the new one? I still think of my ex all the time, over a year ...

Is it possible that he's the one that got away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

3 April 2017 (F) - I been having thoughts that i want my ex boyfriend back, it is impossible because he's already engaged for a year now. What makes it even weirder is that we broke up 4 years ago. So i was dating with my ex for couple of months, we broke up because i ...

How can I shake off what my ex said about my family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

2 April 2017 (M) - My ex-girlfriend has really messed with my mind about my family and the people that I've been closest to my entire life. She comes from a broken home, her mother has been through 2 divorces, and her father is gay. At my uncle's wedding, she was very ...

Why did this older woman have a thing for the guy I'm dating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

2 April 2017 (F) - Recently I've gotten together with someone my age.(24) I've known him for since he was 14 he lived down the street. We were at a bar andhis friend told me that when he was 17 he was fucking this woman when she was 32 years old. (She was in the same ...

Why are those women items still laying around, is he lying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

1 April 2017 (F) - Hi, So The times that I have gone to my boyfriends apartment, I have seen around 3 or 4 woman stuff laying around, on the bathroom, I saw a black eyeliner, closed kotex pads, thrown in a corner of the bathroom, there was also like two shopping bags ...