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anonymous
writes:my gf wants to immediatley end sex after she orgasms. what should i do?
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (24 October 2009):
 You hardly said anything. Do you finish too or just her? Because if it's just her than you should find out why she stops. You haven't considered how she feels. A lot of women can't continue or it gets highly unvomfortable or can sting. Do you want her to feel that way at the expense of your pleasure? She can finish you with an alterative method.
If you do get the chance to orgasm before she does, then get over it. After you each orgasm once, the goal of sex has been achieved and not everyone wants to keep going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): she probably is just really sensitive im the same way, just talk to her and maybe take a break but i dont think shes being selfish
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): she is being selfish.
Do you get to orgasm?
Talk to her. Tell her that you are in a relationship. She isn't just the one who gets to orgasm.
Usually, the guy will get the girl to orgasm first, and then the guy will go for his and the girl should be more than willing to do that.
Your girlfriend SHOULD want you to be able to orgasm.
She is being unfair.
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reader, tux +, writes (24 October 2009):
 orgasm first...
but what you really need to do, is talk to her about it and communicate your issues.. relationships should be based on communication.. if you already are communicating it with her, then you may need to reanaalyze your relationship..
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