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30-35,
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writes: I have big crush on somebody, who is almost impossible to be or just to start conversation with. One year ago we ended on a sofa kissing in the house of his neightboor. But it was extreme situation, that can never happen again (because of a bit different circumstances) . He wanted to have sex with me and i said no. After that he never say hello to me, just when he's drunk he's making the eyes on me. We often quickly look at each other's eyes and then look away. I know it's stupid to have crush on him, since.I'm quite a pretty girl and very out-going. A lot of guys would love to be with me, but i'm single because i'm too picky. But he just seems perfect for me.. He likes the same bands as me, he's 5 years older (i'm 19 and he's 24), he lives 2 miles away from me and besides that he is single (and as i know he never have girlfriend or even lover before)The main problem is that everytime i see him, he's with a bunch of his friends and he only has conversations with them. So it's very hard to talk with him. I see him once or twice a month in a bar or on some party and he's always with them, talking, smoking cigarettes and drinking. And besides that, i don't really know anybody of them. So how to get him? I sended him messege last december if he would like to go with me for a drink, but he didn't response. That was shock for me!. I'm not used to this, i've never had crush on somebody who i don't know before and i don't know why the hell i'm so frozen when he's around. So i came to the crazy idea that i should just simply stop him on one party and confess him all my feelings. What do you think about that? Is it too extreme? Do you have any other advice? Do you think i have to forget him? Or maybe start conversation with him on facebook (which doesn't sound a good idea for me)? Do you think this situation is unsolvable? Any advice would be very helpful for me. Thanks!
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (24 October 2009):
 I agree with Ask oldersister, you should listen to her advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): Im afraid your ego is going to have to take a hit.
Hes not interested in you, sorry
Dont bother trying to get him as you will just end up being used for sex.
Its always wierd how some people will throw themselves at you and the next one wont even look at you huh.
Try someone who likes you
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