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*oveIsRough
writes:I went to homecoming last night, and it was amazing. We were dancing like crazy and the whole place was crowded. A guy in my geometry and bio class is when grade above me, and he's always been mean to me...but he's stopped since 4 weeks ago...He's been look at me all the time, and since he's one of the cutest guys at my school, everyone asked him to dance. Three girls were begging him to dance with them, and I was dancing with a friend nearby... While they were trying to convice him to dance, he kept looking over towards me and saying to them, "I think I'm going to ask someone else to dance. Okay?" The girls started arguing and five minutes later the dance ended. I think I like him. Does he like me? He always talks me to me in class now, and he won't leave me alone. I think I'm in love with him.There's just one issue. He's one of those popular mean guys, who you either love or hate. He's played so many girls in his lifetime. But i'll tell you right now how diffrent i am! I will never let a guy treat me like trash, and he knows that. That's why he hasn't asked me out yet. :( Reply to this Question
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 I'm glad you didn't go out with him and he didn't have a chance to really hurt you.
I hope you find a nice caring guy.
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reader, LoveIsRough +, writes (23 February 2010):
LoveIsRough is verified as being by the original poster of the question OH MY GOODNESS! You guys were right. He's a jerk! Last week he said a slew of racial slurs to me, since I'm half white half hispanic. Thank you for warning me! I'm so glad i DIDNT GO OUT WITH HIM.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): ok where there you go he clearly likes you and you like him, so go for it lol just take it slow, and make sure he continues to respect you if you do decide to date!
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reader, LoveIsRough +, writes (26 October 2009):
LoveIsRough is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for your help, but I think you need to realize one thing....he's told other people he's in love with me...He asked for advice from my best friend. I would never have sex with him. He knows this too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): its very possible that he likes you! it might be a case of the guy who pull the pig tails of the girl he likes, he prtends to dislike you to get your attention. and believe it or not his treatment of you may be part of why you like him to oddly enough lol. just be careful with him he he's a player like you say then you need to take it slow and keep a level head. this guy sounds like a guy who like girls who are a challenge, which would explain his attraction to you. good luck hope it works out1
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reader, sunnycomet +, writes (24 October 2009):
Are you sure you are in love and it's not just a crush?
Anyway, I would be very careful. He was mean to you in the past and now all of sudden nice? Sounds like he might have intentions to use you.
Don't do anything with him you will regret (like sex) and keep your guard up. I really don't think he cares (or even likes you) so I would keep your distance. But since you have a crush (or in love) then you probably will want to ignore my advice and get closer instead of keeping your distance.
Just be careful, guard your heart, and don't let him fool you.
Good Luck!
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