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writes:I myself have a smallish penis that's around 3 inches long and 4 inches around...Now I haven't had sex before, but I've read that the size makes a big difference to the girl.Should I be worried about my small size? Reply to this Question
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (24 October 2009):
I'm not going to lie or try and claim that only shallow women or women that are "sluts" like larger penises. I am a woman and have many female friends (we aren't shallow or sluts), I nor have anyone of my other friends ever asked each other, "So did he have a small penis?" It's quite the opposite. No, we don't want a huge gigantic penis--average to barely above average is good. It is also said that women only feel I think it's the first 2 or 3 inches of the penis in her vagina. However, a smaller penis makes some positions a little harder to accomplish. The average penis I heard is 5-5 1/2 inches, which makes it a little hard for me to believe that the dude with a 6" penis couldn't fit into some women...yeah, right--but I also wasn't there.
So yes, size does matter...but only to a certain extent. However, like others have posted there's many other ways/positions that you can still please a woman. Be confident and don't worry about it too much. After all, the motion of the ocean is what matters most of the time. There's guys with larger penises that still suck in bed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): Thats the big joke but The fact is YES size does matter. It always has and will.The whole world knows it. Do you want to date a big fat girl no. BUT good news - what you can do is have sex with confidence and learn where and how to touch a women in the right spots - find the g-spot- use a few positions pay attention to all of her parts of the body. You can have a smaller penis and still be good in bed and rock her world, just don't be selfish in bed, take care of her needs. Women like to be man handled and put into a few positions, they love it with props too. add some spice. To get the best penetration go from the back side with her bent over or put her legs high in the air and she can hold the headboard. First, find someone you really love and it will all work out fine, she wants the whole man not just the sex. Make sure she's special and the one. Do not obsess about your weiner, your fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): No it really don't matter that much.. hey some times its easier for girls if its small. LOL
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): Do you want to hear the truth.Im about 6 inches so ill tell you how you are better off than meI have on 2 occasions dated girls who could not fit me in. Do you think I am braging??? NO!! I was horny and couldnt get laid. Wern't fun nights I'll tell you.I even followed the sterio type and dated a couple of African girls... They said it was too big and got sore after about 1 hour!!!I used to think like you until an old gf read me an article from cleo. It was girls complaining about large dicks. The girls all said that they were uncomfortable and hurt them alot.I also noticed that the only girls that valued larger ones were... how to put it: slutsHaving a dick your size means that you can do several sex poitions that I cant, also your partner might be willing to let you try anal (my gf's quickly say no loudly)So dont worry about it, its the same as how we feel about their breats, doesnt really matter
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): No.
It may be a typical response, but if a girl likes you, loves you, she wont care what size you are down there.
There are some girls, who want a big penis and will dump a guy if he doesn't. They are shallow. Do you really want a girl who only wants you if you have a big penis?.
From personal experience my ex was large and my current partner is average. Large was extremely painful and not pleasureable.
Dont let it get to you, because some girls will be able to tell you might be insecure with it. Try to be 'this is what ive been given' be confident and a girl will ike u for u.
It is not all about size !!
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