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writes:My friend has been showing signs that he likes me. He stares at me when I’m across the room, talks to me, remembers what I say. On the bus if I don’t say anything because I don’t want to talk he will just look at me then look away then look at me again like he’s waiting for me to say something to him. I sat with his cousin because were best friends and he sat behind us because someone took his seat across from us. He would put his hand on our seat and look forward and when I turned around to talk to him he would get closer to me and lean in to talk to me. Like he was waiting for me to turn around and talk to him or notice him. He always faces my direction with his feet when he talks, sometimes touches his hair, puts his hands behind his head. If he makes these signs that he likes me then why isn’t he asking me out. He has tons of friends who are girls but never had a girlfriend and I never had a boyfriend. I feel so happy after talking to him and sometimes feel hot like I’m blushing. I know that I like him and that he possibly likes me but I don’t want to make the first move. Is it normal for a guy like you but not text or compliment you anymore?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You those were great answers!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 October 2009):
Yes it is. This is what happans when a girl doesn't appear to respond. Being a male, I know how confused he'll be. He gave you all the signs, and perhaps he felt unsure about what you were feeling, so now he's slowing down so he doesn't get hurt. So now you need to be brave and talk to him, otherwise he'll think you're not interested.
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reader, Accountable +, writes (24 October 2009):
 Yes, its definitely possible that a guy is too nervous to make moves like that despite liking you! Especially if he does really like you - guys can be vulnerable and fearful of rejection as much as girls, and particularly if its one theyre really interested in, and scared of losing :) i would imagine your guy is acting this way because he isn't particularly experienced, and isn't sure how to approach you. I'd try being a bit more openly flirty with him and just seeing where it takes you both :) good luck! xx
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