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No inclination to actually have sex, but horny just the same

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Question - (10 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay. So I masturbate quite often and frequently fantasize while I'm doing it about being WITH a...ya know, a guy...but I cannot imagine actual sex feeling good; rubbing myself is nice and I am your typical teenager--I get horny just like, listening to "Lollipop" by Lil Wayne...but I don't have any inclination whatsoever to have SEX...I don't know if this makes any sense, but if it does, is it normal???

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (10 June 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntSounds pretty normal to me. It is your body getting ready to be an adult. As long as you remember that horny does NOT mean ready for sex, you avoid a LOT of problems. No girl ever got pregnant from masturbation.

Someday you might fall in love and want to have sex and trust me, those feelings will be totally different then just being horny.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

It's completly normal it's just raging hormones I have share of "moments"

As for the want to have sex it's normal and great i mean sex sucks

wait till mariage and life is so much better stick to masturbating

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

It's normal for a teenager to masturbate. Really, it's better for a teen to do this then to have sex; You can't get pregnant and you don't have to worry about the drama of sexual conflicts with a man. When your ready then you do it. Don't do it if you don't want to or not ready. I know everyone says this to you but realy wait for the right person.

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