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I want to be perfect!

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Question - (10 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

heres my issue: im skinny no hips no butt poofy hair when not scrunched with gel or straightened. over this summer(2 months) i want to get atleast a bit of hips a little bit of butt gain 15 lbs and find something to make my hair less frizzy and straighter but i want my stomach to stay flat and i dont want a double chin :/ any advice? anything you may recommend me to do? thanks . oh and i am 14. please give me advice on EVERYTHING i wrote . thank you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

Here's another possible solution: believe in yourself exactly the way you are.

There's no harm in wanting to look better but you might be surprised how many people love you just the way you are.

Get some advice on diet and exercise, not just to look better but to stay health and feel better. As to the double chin, you won't have to worry for a lot of years yet!

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A female reader, jalmetha United States +, writes (10 June 2009):

jalmetha agony auntIf you are 14, you may still get some hips and your butt may fill out.

As for your hair, use a heavier conditioner.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-be-curvy-and-not-skinny.html

The answers are coming honey, you don't have to post multiple times. There are MODS who are trying to keep uo with qustions and answers and this makes it a bit more difficult i'm afraid.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

My biggest advice to you would be to stop reading fashion and beauty magazines. At 14, your body is still developing so of course your hips are a little narrow. As you get older it'll change.

Just visit a hair salon and ask for advice or to get your hair straightened. Or, look at the millions of beauty blogs out there that review products etc and try some new things to get the look that you want.

Just make sure that you keep a healthy diet and exercise. There are no quick and easy ways to completely alter what nature gave you. I'll say that again: there is not too much you can do about it!

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