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writes: so me and this guy have just recently been talkingwell actually more weve been on 2 dates already[they were back to back]and he wants to hang out again today:]on the 2d date he kissed me like 9 timesfor our first kiss i was walking in front of him and he grabbed my hand turned me around and he kissed meand like all the time ever since the day before our first date i havent been eating muchi havent got much sleepand my stomachs been hurting like i wanna throw up or somethingso what do you think this is? love? lust? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, David Willow +, writes (28 December 2009):
It sounds like lust -followed by food poisoning :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): Great! Sex doesn't "just happen"....what you just happen to take off all of your clothes and fall on top of each other? Be Safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd no hes not the type of guy that just wants sex
he was in a relationship for 1 year and never had sex
he told me that our relationship is to important to ruin it with sex, but if it happens it happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): well if you've only been recently talking , it's lust, but hey do you really expect him to fall iin love straight away? At least he really fancies you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): Lust, I am going to tell you to enjoy the kissing part, but be careful about going any farther with this boy because he has one thing on his mind and it ain't love baby.
Try to find some activities to do together other than kissing, talk to him a lot and get to know him. Sometimes when we feel attracted to someone we tend to clam up which leads to more sexual activity rather than communication....so slow him down a bit, you can remove his pesky hands from places you don't want him to touch just by grabbing and holding them and moving them, you don't have to hit him or anything like that! LOL.
Remember, you set the pace, you have control over that.
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (10 June 2009):
Lust.
Love is where you would do anything for someone and you want to be with them for the rest of your life. It takes a long time for people to fall in love and to be sure that they love them.
What your feeling is lust, have fun and enjoy the feelings you have and make sure you make sure every second is amazing with him!
Livia
xoxox
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (10 June 2009):
Lust, enjoy it!
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