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female
age
30-35,
*hebie
writes:Hiya, I had a bit of a mad weekend and kissed one of my closest friend's boyfriends, the thing is - him and my boyfriend are really close too but my boyf is in jail at the moment. Me, my friend and her boyfriend was all out together we had a good night and as usual we ended up back at hers. There was loads of people at the house. I went and put myself in bed, I do it all the time an everyone laughs at me for it an calls me a light weight, her boyfriend come to get me out of bed sayin "its not bed time yet come on come an have another drink", but as i went to leave the room he dragged me an kissed me. obviously were both to blame cos i kissed back, i then said "no that was wrong" an went down the stairs. then i went up stairs to use the toilet and when i came out he was outside the toilet and kissed me again. the thing is, i really enjoyed the kiss. then i fell asleep on the couch downstairs and my friend woke me up an said go to bed, then i heard him say he was going to bed too and all the people where like "no you cant cos shes up in bed" and i heard my friend say "no its ok she always sleeps in bed with us, i trust them 1 million percent", he came an got in the bed an i told him we should just forget it cos we was drunk but he grabbed my hand and held it an kissed me again. i went home in the end but now he wont leave me alone hes asking and asking me to go an see him... they have a very bad relationship anyway, they are always fighting and finishing, but i no that doesnt give me the right to go an spoil it. i feel dead guilty now, i cant really speak to my friend, ive cancelled all my visits to see my boyfriend and told him i want nothing to do with him. i love my friend and i love my boyfriend but i cant help but feel this crazy attraction to him. im so confused, he saying hes left her and ive left my boyfriend too, but is it worth risking all we both have for one silly night that may have just been a drunken mistake? please help me im so confused!!!!!
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reader, compuzzled_chick  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 I think you should tell your friend what happened. Don't lose afriend and a boyfriend over some stupid mistake. Just be sure to make it VERY clear to your friend that your judgement was impared and it would be best to leave out the fact that you liked it.
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